Are you going to Marry Someone who doesn't know cooking?
October 29, 2007 11:45am CST
One Big question to all men around here. If you are about to marry someone who is beautiful and kind, smart and everything as you think and at the last you discover that she doesnt know how to cook. what are you going to do? does it really matter? Or your love will be lessen until you stop loving her? Just need your comments and reaction.
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30 Oct 07
I know about a lady. She had all of the qualities you quoted here. But she did not know about the cooking. She was almost at zero point at the moment of her marriage. But now she seems a great cook of her home. I remember that I had gifted her a umber of books containing varieties of cooking methods and recipes. But it made me wonderer, when I was invited on a dinner at her sweet home. She cooked and decorated colorful plates of eastern foods on the dinning table along with sweet dishes like ice ream cake, clustered and jellies. How did you manage to learn it all? I asked the question and she presented the reply with an attractive smile that all of this is taught her the time and her keen interest. It was a strange answer. But it is not strange as every thing is possible. You can learn a lot after your marriage, which can make your home and family more and more happy. We should not care about the cooking skill of a wise and hardworking lady. Because practice make a person perfact.
30 Oct 07
Cooking is one of many qualities of a good wife. This quality is optional. We should not marry a cook. We should get a kind and nice life partner and a nice life partner is a wife, who could result a happy marriage. Mutual understanding between a husband and a wife is back bone of happy married life. If she is beautiful, but could not give you respect, then the beauty has no meaning. She should have the qualities of good house hold. She should have the qualities of sharing happiness and worries. She should able to think and behave like a second wheel of two wheeled cart of married life. These qualities result a happy married life. And every man should seek such simple and cooperative wife. I think.
30 Oct 07
If I am the guy, that wont matter. I would accept her and find remedies regarding that problem. There are women who does not know how to cook. Tho wouldugh I believe that every person should know how, I think that if you really love her, then you would accept her. There is always a way to learn. If she loves you then maybe she would try to learn for you.
• New Zealand
30 Oct 07
Marrige is between 2 people who understand each other, love each other care for each other and more importantly one who can tolerate each other and ignore the shortcomings of others. If get such a quality in my partner then weather she knows cooking or not does not matter to me ..its not thet important ..good question ..rating yor for that...cheers
29 Oct 07
No of course not. In Marriage couples should work as teammates. There are things that your other half is capable of doing that you cannot do. Share your knowledge to her if you know how to cook. If not send her to a school where they teach someone like her to cook for you. Love is giving and sharing thoughts and knowledge..That makes better relationship if one is giving and understanding. It is not right to give up the relationship just because your partner dont know anything about kitchen. That is silly if you leave her just because she dont know how to use the knife and what it is for..Goodluck!