Change Of Plans Tonight---What A Bummer! Mad At Myself!

I'm sorry to hear you had to miss your party...sounds like it would have been alot of fun. At least you can look forward to Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's parties. Hope your feeling better. I'm not big on parties so I've never gotten really mad if I've had to miss one. "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS" **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

Oh yeah I've had that happen to me and one sticks out of my mind the most, my cousin's wedding which I was suppose to be a part of but I was so sick that day that I just couldn't go. It was my monthly and I had such horrible times with it the first few days and come to find out I had a cyst the size of a newborns head and could've killed me. On the day itself, my cousin knowing the kind of pain I always went through on those times understood but was disappointed but understood completely. After years of having that kind of pain and 9 cysts 3 surgeries 2 laproscopies and endometriois 4 times, I finally had a hysterectomy. I thought I was free of the crap but then I was taking hormone pills in which now I know I still have endo so I stopped the hormone pills in hopes it'll get rid of the endo. Seems NEVER ending for me when it comes to this. GRRRRR!!

no never let the pain stop me for I figure I go and drink enough the pain will go away and I can have all the fun I want lol. and I reda some where else that you celebrated your other way which maybe a bit more healing fo r you hugs

Im so sorry your arm is still hurting. Maybe you should go and have it checked out. Its hard to have fun when your having pain. You can look forward to going on Thanksgiving or Christmas. Im sorry you couldnt go I know how you were looking forward to that. HUGS

Aw hun *hugs* I hope you are feeling a bit better today. I missed out on a friend's party last year thanks to a really bad bout of flu. When I should have been dancing the night away, I spent the evening curled up in bed feeling very sorry for myself. What made it worse was the phone call I got from one of my mates at the party, just phoning me to let me know that they all missed me, but all I could hear was the party going on in the background. Boy was I fed up.

I am so sorry! I hope your arm is feeling better today. I know exactly what you mean - you look forward to something and then bam! Either I get sick or one of the kids do and we end up not being able to go. It's so frustrating!

I am sorry that you are in pain like that and I hope it goes away soon It might be a good Idea to get it checked out Sweetie Love and Hugs

Poor dear! I am so sorry you couldn't go. I hope she at least saved you some of the food and brought it to you today. More than that though, I hope that taking good care of yourself has helped you to recover. I am so happy that you didn't push it just for "in the moment" fun. It's wonderful to be an adult and to actually know better than that. Feel better soon.~D

I am sorry to hear about your arm. I have been in that spot before. Last year when I fell and dislocated my right elbow in July, I was still in alot of pain and still have a half cast on and was not able to do much of the things that we did during the holidays. And then 4 years ago on Oct 31st I also fell that day and took a big hunk of skin out of my hand and had to have 8 stitches in it that was a real treat for passing out candy that year. I do hope that you get better soon. Loves!

Some things you just cannot help Pye. You had an injury that you need to take care of. If you went on to the party and were on pain meds you would need someone to take care of getting you home safely and that would have worried you to I'm sure. There is always the next party you can go to. Yeah, it would have upset me too but like I said you can't help it if you are in pain. Hope you feel better soon and are taking good care of yourself. Have a great day :)

Hi pyewacket, That sounds like such a fun party, and I'm sorry you had to miss it. I trust your arm will be better soon. The one time that comes to my mind, happened a number of years ago. My friend and I had an escorted bus tour booked to Pennsylvania. I'd already paid for part of it. A few weeks prior to our departure, I had an accident, and dislocated my patella (kneecap), which left me in a 'stovepipe cast.' There was no way I could go on this trip, so my friend ended up taking her mother instead. Of course, I was reimbursed by her mother, for my portion, already paid, but I was very upset, and disappointed just the same.

Hi pyewacket! Oh, that is so sad! I hope somehow myLot will give you company and make you feel a little bit better. I did experienced that before when I was so much young the, I was really looking forward to attend this party of my friend because she told me my crush will also be there. Oh, I am really looking forward to it and was so excited and nervous at the same time. I have shopped for a new dress and tried on different hairstyle so that I will look beautiful that night. But then, my father reminded me few hours before of the party that I am grounded for the week and I am not allowed to attend the party. It was my fault because I got a failing grade on my exam then. Well, I cried of course but it was my fault because I already knew that we can only enjoy weekend parties with friends as long as our grades are ok. Take care and have a nice day.

Hi pyewacket,im sorry to hear about your arm.Yes lasy year for New Years Eve we had planned to go out.I never go out but my boyfriend does and it doesnt bother me,but just this once i wanted to go to this special event.We reserved a babysitter for that night 2 weeks before and that day our daughter started feeling groggy.Later that afternoon she was nasty and tired alotI said oh no i think shes going to be sick.My boyfriend said oh she will be o.kBut that night half an hour before we were going to leave she became really sick and throwing up.I had to call at the last minute to cancel the babysitter because i wanted to stay home with her and take care of her.Thats the way i am,i have to be there when shes sick,i feel better when i am.The babysitter understood and she went out with her friends.My boyfriend went out for an hour but came back at midnight to wish me happy new year.My daughter developed the 24 hour flu,hahaha and threw up all night.That was the best New Years Eve i ever had,hahaha.I didnt mind:):):)I wanted to stay home anyway and she helped me. Peanutjar:)

yep, several years ago.. family vacation at our favorite spot at the beach.. great beach, great fishing, even lucked up and got our favorite rental house at the last minute.. everyone could go, not a usual occurrence because all work healthcare or electric company or such and rarely get our vacations to coincide.. so there we are first morning after arriving night before.. eastern wind (not good fishing) so we decide to bike around the island, do some shopping, sightseeing etc. Well, you know the old saying about not forgetting how to ride a bike? Don't believe it!! Two blocks from the house, I slid in a puddle of water, boom.. yep broke the ankle.. lovely.. so there I am in a cast.. can't get in the water, can hardly walk.. can't do my favorite fishing (surf fishing, you are supposed to wade out in water to midcalf or knees).. not supposed to get sand in cast.. big bummer.. two weeks wasted, sitting at the house (nice house but hell, I can watch cable at home a lot cheaper right?). When I did go to the beach I had to put a plastic wrap on the damn cast (very attractive) and had to bottom fish, which means u throw your bait out, stick your rod in a holder and wait (pretty boring when all others are surf fishing).. no dancing at the bar.. no bike riding.. sure as hell couldn't walk.. no nuttin that I went there for.. I was supremely pissed for the whole two weeks and to add insult to injury? My share of the cost was around $500 PLUS the damn doctor, and believe me, tourist island docs do NOT work cheap lol.. I do hope your arm gets better sweetie. I hate you had to miss a great bash. We are home tonight and wouldn't you know it? Halloween night and there's not even a decent horror flick on tv.. So mom and I are pigging out on candy and watching dvds.. We shall have a hot chocolate in your honor, my friend. Feel better soon.

Your body is telling you to take an easy. I always go with my energy level; if my energy is low for any reasons, then I stay home...I miss party many times... As days are short, dark and cold, I am sure your friend will do next party soon ....:)

That really sucks you had to miss the party!! Yeah I've had that happen a couple of times. It really does suck. We've even had to miss some when my hubby gets sick or what not. That sucks too. I hate it when it does happen but at least its rare...especially as we don't go out much either :)

On my 18th birthday, I had a bad cold so instead of going out that night, I went out a week later.I was sad but I got to go out the next week.

I had such a major cold one time that while I went to a science fiction convention, I missed the costume contest & about half the con because I was so sick with a cold. This is the same cold that affected me for 3 months & I was on 3 different antibiotics

well..i got hit by a car on my birthday one year- i guess that counts.no dancing for me that night,i was on crutches.heh..well,i guess i can't say i'll ever forget my 27th birthday;)

Yep, that happened to me, the day of my big family reunion. I was a little disappointed, but not alot, because there were so many people that I hadn't seen in years, and I was nervous, anyway. If it had just been my usual family reunion, with my aunts, uncles, cousins, in the first level, I wouldn't have minded going so much. But that yucky sinus infection was that little extra something that kept me home that day.