How do you do if you find your boyfriend or your girl friedn with some evil idea

November 1, 2007 4:15am CST
One of my good friend came across a headache problem .Which made her emotional. That is beacuse of her X-friend. She have part with her boyfriend for three months.However,she couldn.t help herself to pay attention to him.As she thought they part without any ending performance. We are all confused about them . Her X-boyfriend is a short and thin boy but a talent writer .He was expert on the history.Which attracted my friend very much.She told me she was happy when he told story to her. It was a long trip for them to get together .After his 3 years pursue ,my friend appect his affection.All of us think it will be a sweet ending. But after 3 months ,I found my friend offten worried about their future.As the boy quit his job frequently(merely once every month). My friend do excellent in her job.So we have tried to persuade my friend to give up but in vain.As she deeply loved him. This June ,the boy became slient and slient.Which bother my friend.At last ,my friend could not bare the slient.She raise the issue. However,the boy keep slient again and again.He refused to answer my friend's phone.He didn't reply the SMS .So my friend had to gave up. Last week ,My friend send a mail to him.And he just reply in one letter,He informed her to take care of herself ,do not wast of time on a boring person. We rage about that .Earlier ,we thought the boy loves her so much that he want to give up to clear more room for her. However ,Now we thougt he was a bad person who without responsibility .He is a dwarf.Why he not to say good bye to my friend.why he could not face the problem. So what will you do to comfort my friend.Pls kindly give me some advice.
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• Philippines
2 Nov 07
Well my friend, to tell you frankly i dont want to give an advice coz i dont want to be blamed someday. If you want to do this just follow this advice ok? Well i think your friend really loves her BF even though he's not responsible, if i were in my shoe, i will not end our relationshiop ends like that, they really have to talk, tell her to call her bf and set up a date where they can talk. Then just be herself if she's mad or not, if her bf dont want to continue their relationship anymore then she should accept hte fact that its over.. Physical appearance is not that important!
• India
1 Nov 07
First of all improve your english!!! Now coming back to your friend, well dude there is not much you can do to comfort her rite now, no one can do much! she has to make herself understand and get over things. you are her firend and I understand your concern but then seriously you cant do much. I can only advise you to be with her, dont let her feel that she is alone. Take her out for parties or some other good places so that she enjoyies and her mind is off those thoughts. Also try and go around in group, make sure she is with more than two people... rather is with a bunch of good perople, this way she wont be able to open up (which could happen if she is with you only)and thus open the doors to her past!!! Dont talk much about it, Remeber no matter what you say to her.... it cannot comfort her!!! She has to understand it all herslef and get over it.