Mother or your wife

There should not have to be a choice really because generally the first loyalty a man should have should be to his wife. Certainly there might be times when the mother needs assistance, and it should be provided but not if his wife needs help more. If the man cannot support both of them, then the wife should always have priority over the mother.

lol, I am a mother and a wife...I pity the guys who are caught in the middle.

i support to my mother

Both, Need love care and support, pick and choose who to support at the right times, and if you don't know, Ask them to handle the problems, and do your best to remain neutral. - DNatureofDTrain