love & trust

India
November 4, 2007 11:09pm CST
should love & trust go together? is it ok to love a person even after knowing that he or she has beytrayed & shattered your trust?
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5 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I think love and trust go hand in hand, yet it is still possible to love someone and not trust them. I know this, because I have been through it enough times. My husband had shattered my trust with a betrayal once and it has taken a long time to get over it, forgiveness is a big step forward and necessary to rebuild a relationship. I do trust him and I do love him, but for a period of time, trust was minimal but my love for him was great, it is what got us through the hard times.
• India
7 Nov 07
i dnt know how can we love & not trust them..... i would call this type of feeling which u r telling that is just attachment or crush.......... or something more lower in category........... this may not bge called love....... do u agree?
• United States
16 Nov 07
i must admit that i have cheated on someone that i loved and who loved me back really hard. i have regretted it for quite some time now. when he found out about me cheating, he said that his whole view of me changed. he felt like i would never betray him and when he found out that i did, our relationship was on the rocks. we aren't together anymore, but we are the best of friends. i love him and he tells me that he loves me all the time, but because of the whole trust issue, we cannot be together. we both understand that.
• United States
31 Dec 07
They should go together because i believe to love someone who need to be able to trust them, it depends on the person if some one will love a person again if they betrayed you some think that it wrong but other forgive.
• India
16 Nov 07
They are both the mirror images.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
This is only what I can say: "WHAT REWARD SHALL WE RECEIVE IF WE ONLY LOVE THOSE THAT LOVE US?" It came from the Bible.
@khateya (263)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
Trust and love must go together. Without trust love is not real love. learn to trust the one u love. u can love someone without trust at the begining but trust need to be built next.