what will you do when you have hundreds of things to do while your girlfriend?

@hyzz1982 (1040)
China
November 5, 2007 3:26am CST
what will you do when you have a lot of things to do. but your girlfirends always interupt you. one of my friend ask my this question. i have no idea. so i come here for help. the friend do love her girlfriend , but she is boring, and call him every 2 hours and chat for 1 hour. SOS.SOS.HELP!!
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@talisman (1308)
• United States
5 Nov 07
A good relationship involves open communication. It sounds like that exactly what your friend needs to work on. If his girlfriend is calling when he's busy or has something to do, he needs to let her know that. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love her and she should understand that.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
5 Nov 07
my friend is a researcher. he has to write a lot of things everyday and do many experiments everyday. he said he know she loved him. but she always think he is not care about her like before no matter how he explain , she just call and call, if he doesn't answear the phone. she will get anger.
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@talisman (1308)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Then that's definately a problem. It's not right of her to get angry. She needs to realize that her boyfriend has other priorities besides her. Your friend needs to put his foot down and if she still decides to behave immaturely, he needs to decide if he really wants to be with someone like that.
• India
6 Nov 07
i think a better understanding is very important in any relationships
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• India
6 Nov 07
First of all i would try my level best to make her understand how important my works are for me as she is for me and i am sure she will understand me till now i didnt have to face such a problem
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
9 Nov 07
sure she know that. but it seems that she doesn't care about that. she just do everything she like and never think about the results. that is the problem.
@batulboy (196)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
your girlfriend has the right to know if shes disturbing you....if she knows it then she would not bother you anymore....but be careful not to hurt her feelings so she will deal with it in a positive way....or else she will bring issues that youll be forced to pay.
• India
6 Nov 07
yes i think its better to make her understand rather than taking her for granted
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
9 Nov 07
hi, batulboy,. thanks for your response. of course she has the rights to know what he is doing. but she should not disturb him all the time. he has to work for feed the family. i think a ture love is based on a understand. no understanding no love.
@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
5 Nov 07
Hi hyzz, this is but natural. Obviously the girl is in love and wants to talk out her heart. You should respect her feelings. However, I can understand your friend's point of view as well. Ask him to talk to her and explain that his job profile requires more time and concentration and while he just loves to talk to her, it's actually not possible for he has to live up to his work. I am sure she will understand. Don't her her by being blatant with expression but be very delicate and soft. Good luck!
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
5 Nov 07
hi, mimpi/ i understand. i will tell him . thank you very much. good luck to you.
• India
6 Nov 07
i think you have to deal the thing without breaking any hearts
@nkhanna (925)
• India
11 Nov 07
boyfrnd n grfrnd relationship is based on love n understanding.i think its just not the girls fault.if ur frnd loves that girl he sud directly tell her that he has other tihngs to do n he ll talk to her later.i m sure the girl will understand this as she wud also b having other priorities in her life.i dont understand how can a love b boring ?is love true from both the side.??????????bcoz love is a very beautiful emotion which can never bore ones.need to think !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
11 Nov 07
thank you. i will tell him about that. thank you. i will let him think about that carefully.
• China
11 Nov 07
i don't have a girlfriend. if i have one. and i love her. i will like to answer her phone. i will wait for her call all the time.