i am lost ...i have lost my interest...suggest me something to do....

India
November 8, 2007 2:35pm CST
Hello friends.. after so many days once again i came back to mylot ...actually i am very much confused reagrding what to do??after my graduation i had a gap of 3 yrs and in these 3 yrs i did nothing due to some family problem..now i am feeling like my brain is empty and i lost my interest in everything.i am always feeling upset and always thinking what to do. some of my friends are suggesting to do some computer course and some are suggestimg for something else.but as i am not getting interest in anything i am feeling tough everything and negative thoughts are coming like if i failed in this field. pls help me what i should do?? and also suggest me some career options also..
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@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
8 Nov 07
It sounds like you are severely depressed. I would postpone making any large decisions such as career options and get some help for the feelings. See a counselor or a doctor. You may need an antidepressant. You may also simply be in one of periods that follow a loss of some kind. You mention a family problem and a three-year gap in your life. It may be hard to work through some of that. Again, I recommend talking to someone about your emotions and getting some help before trying to move on. Good luck and God bless.
• India
8 Nov 07
actually i am unable to discuss my problem with anyone.i am somewhat introvert type.i dont know how to come out of these things and help myself.
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@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I am a retired mental health counselor. If you would like to, send me a private message. I may be able to help a little. I'm requesting that you add me as a friend so we can send the private messages. You may still need to see a doctor about some meds, however.
• China
9 Nov 07
Dont worry boy!You will suit this enviroment! You should to study ever time,because learning news can hlpe you in this times. It is best way to help by your self! NO pain,no gain!
@jithinsb (518)
• India
9 Nov 07
anyhow you have to do something in your life.Do not stumble,just go ahead.Do the thing that comes first in your mind and do not look back as you have already lost 3 years.Go for it ,whatever it may be.