"Wear your wedding ring all the time"

Kuwait
November 9, 2007 9:00am CST
Honestly speaking do you wear your wedding ring everyday? or even without your spouse with you? I just want to know your opinion because i know someone try to hide it to treak others and fool around. how about you? what is your opinion?
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I never wear my wedding rings...In fact I only wear them a couple times a yr but I dont wear much jewelry anyway
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• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
ah so you dont wear them? and not much acquinted to jewelry ha, Thanks for the response appreciated.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
9 Nov 07
I haven't worn my wedding and engagement rings much lately. I am not fooling around, nor am I tricking anyone. It's just a matter of them becoming uncomfortable physically against my skin, and so I took them off, and I haven't put them back on yet. I will, eventually, when I can wear them and feel comfortable, but it's not a matter of tricking anyone or fooling around. I also know a lot of people who don't wear their wedding rings because they get in the way of their work or other things. Or because, like me, they sometimes have problems with skin reactions to them and such.
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• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
so you are allergy to gold?its wierd but yes sometimes people has different type of skin.. but thanks anyway we all have our own reasons of wearing or not wearing a wedding ring..
@Ciniful (1587)
• Canada
9 Nov 07
Never. Then again, my husband I didn't marry with rings ... we married with promises and left out the jewelery. He knew upfront that I don't believe in wedding rings. Knowing the history of them, I see them the same as branding a cow. A wedding ring (historically) is a symbol that you are someone elses property, and I belong to no one but myself. I'm always happy to tell people I'm happily married, although most know that off the bat, with or without a ring.
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• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
Yeah you are right, its just like bound to only husband and wife but what about the outside the bound activities? so no use of wearing it anymore a lot of people dont believe on the sacredness of marriage that why its happening.. Thanks for sharing for point of view, appreciated..
• United States
9 Nov 07
I'm not married yet, but I wear my engagement ring all the time. It just makes me feel good to see it.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
30 Apr 08
Annet, please do not get disappointed if I tell you that I do not wear my wedding ring. In fact I do not like wearing any kind of ring in any of fingures. I do not feel comfortable wearing any ring. I have kept the wedding ring safely in a locker. However, for a woman, to wear a wedding ring is a matter of pride and I find most of the newly married woman wear it in our city. Dpk
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
9 Nov 07
I do wear the wedding ring everyday / everytime even though my husband is in other country working. I hope my hubby wear the ring also everyday. I guess, with wedding ring or not, if somebody wants to fool around, he/ she may do it if he/ she wants to fool or play around. A wedding or marriage is not bound by the ring, it is the love and respect that binds two persons in a wedding.
• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
yeah you are right its the love,,, many people should think like you dear,, Thanks for your sweet response..appreciated
• United States
15 Nov 07
No, I don't wear my wedding ring and neither does my husband. At first it was because they stopped fitting. Mine got too tight when I was pregnant and that was months after our wedding. His was a last minute purchase before our wedding and ended up being too big and we didn't have the money to have it fitted. Now we don't have them anymore. Some one stole them and we don't have the money to replace them. It doesn't bother me, other then we are out the $500 we spent on the two rings.
• Canada
26 May 08
I am fortunate in that I don't have a job that makes it dangerous for me to wear my wedding ring all the time. Same goes for my husband. We both work with computers. The only time with one of us take our rings off is when we are going to go into the swimming pool. We don't want to lose our rings in the water, so we take them off to go swimming, and pu them back on the moment we get out.
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I've been very happily married for just about 6 years. My husband gave me a ring that was his grandmother's when we got married. Shortly after getting married I got pregnant and I retained a lot of water and my ring no longer fit. My fingers never went back to their original size and he has since bought me a new ring. I don't take it off, except to wash dishes, play volleyball or take shower. I think more importantly then if someone wears their ring all the time, is the fact that if the reason why they take it off is because they are planning on cheating. I think cheating on a spouse is horrible.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
5 Dec 07
The only time I take off my wedding ring is when I go to bed because my finger swells up and if some robber decided to take off my ring, then he would have to cut off my hand, and being left handed, I would not like it. Also the fact that my finger would turn blue from lack of circulation, makes it logical since I do not want that to happen. I do, sometimes, forget to put it on and during that time, if I am out somewere, keep my hand in my pocket as much as possible.
@eftychiap (349)
• Cyprus
9 Nov 07
There isn't one day that I haven't worn my wedding ring! I love to wear it and I sometimes feel strange when I don't. I look at it several times a day, I remember each and every moment that I spend with my husband..I just love it! I love the design of it, the idea of it and I just can't take it off my finger! Well, ok sometimes when I do the dishes I take it off..Lol
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• New Zealand
15 Nov 07
Yes I wear it everyday. It symbolizes our love for each other and I am proud to show to everyone that I am married. Its part of me now and bothered if I am not wearing it, I felt that I am missing something very important in my life..=)
7 Jun 08
I always wear mine, I hope my hubby does to or I would definately have to ask why he wasn't!
• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
i hope so dear, sometimes marriage is through the bond of each other if other is not faithful them nothing happen but if you are both in the same rythm then its perfect you really are a couple to wear your bond infront of the whole world.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
24 Sep 08
Yes, since the time I had it I never removed it in my finger and I do not care about other people on what they will tell for i am very proud person to tell everybody that I am already happily Married with someone I loved......
• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
Good for you you are lucky dear,, Thanks for your response iyah,,
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Well, I almost never wear a wedding ring. I have several rings with different colored cubic zirconias that I have. My hubby knows me well enough to recognize that I would get bored with the same ring every single day so he just bought me several sterling silver ones with CZs in different colors and shapes. When I do wear a ring, I match it to my outfit and pick the shape that I think looks best on my hand. I like the pink stones the best and wear those most often. For the cost of a good wedding band, I got 10 sterling silver rings that I wear more often than I would have a traditional wedding ring.
• Pakistan
15 Nov 07
Wedding ring is not a token or certificate, which proves a person that he or she is married. Some people wear it for fashion. Some wear it to show the availability of gold, or diamond typed metal with them. Rich people use to wear an expensive ring as a symbol of wealth bearing. I do not wear wedding ring. I like to keep it in box. Because I feel that it is memoir of a historic day of my life.
@joahnna18 (368)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
i didn't wear my wedding ring all the time. because I always stay home when we go out i use it. My husband wears it all the time maybe he's used to use it. and also it reminds the ring about our promise to each other and his commitment with me and to our son:)
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
10 Nov 07
yes i do wear it all the time,if i dont have it on i feel lost without it.i don't feel it is right to just take it off when you go out to trick or fool people,to me thats wrong to do to get other people upset when they really find out that you are married.pattie
@dilmeet (55)
• India
10 Nov 07
I feel as am not used to of waring ring so thats the reason i wear it just for a month and feel uncomfortable with the ring. But i don't hide my relationship of being married. I told every one that i m happily married person.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
10 Nov 07
When I keep on removing my engangement ring my baby feels bad about it. SOmetimes you feel uncomfortable to wear them you just keep it there to avoid hurting someones feelings.