Divorce

@CatEyes (2448)
United States
November 10, 2007 9:06am CST
I am getting the divorce!!!! It is sooo hard. I am living with my parents and he (the soon to be ex) is harrasing me by saying that it is not a habital place to live and even my nutty aunt who is realy cert. nutty per her dr has been asked by the court to testify. Whew. Well I have my ss benefits which he does not know about and I have our therapist who he confessed abusing me to too. Well. He is now asking to have FULL custudy of my little boy, which I hope is just a ploy. He has not seen little one since july and now will be able to see him every Sunday, the first to for 4 hours supervised and then 6 hours the next 2 sundays until the next hearing on the 5th of Dec. He is not paying full child support, but he is paying a little. His parents and grandmother were at the hearing and I just had my mother. It must be nice not to have to work for a living for them to be able to come down and "support" him like that. Please pray for us, pary that he only gets supervised visits and that he pay child support and spousal support.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
10 Nov 07
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, I notice you hadn't been here in a while, I hope everything works out for you and your Children. Pray, prayer hels, god bless you and yours, I will keep you in My prayers.
10 Nov 07
Thank you sooo much for your response. Please keep my in your prayers. God Bless
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@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Sorry, for some reason I was still on my brother site instead of mine. Too weird.
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@nkhanna (922)
• India
11 Nov 07
i m so sorry to hear bout u.i guess u sud ask for alimony as well as the child support.since he is the father of the kid he sud pay that.such kind od behaviour of man compels a women to b in work all through her life.i wish may god help u in all the worst times of life n b with u.b strong
@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
12 Nov 07
Thank you very much for your support.
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
It's tough to be in your situation. But based what you have written, I know you're a tough young mother. I hope too that you learn a lesson or two about men who profess to love you but in the end, they don't have guts to fight for your marriage. Keep on keeping on, the main event is still ahead!