Break up
By honuikaika87
@honuikaika87 (10)
United States
November 10, 2007 1:16pm CST
Today I told my fiance that we are over. He just isn't the same person anymore. I was pretty mean when we first started to date, but I just got our of a abusive relationship and well I guess I took my anger on him from being abused. And I went and got help with my anger and now I am very happy. But he is getting meanier it seems. So I told him I am letting him go. Im done running after him. I can;t keep being pushed down and all. It just realy hurts now. Did I do the right thing???
2 responses
@Jasmine78 (135)
• United States
10 Nov 07
It's my expience that don't make major decision when you are very angry. Just put it off untill you calm down. Then you can think it over, and make the right decisions.
@Ciniful (1587)
• Canada
10 Nov 07
Jasmine, double posting (minutes apart) will not earn you more money. All it will do is have your posts deleted, and possibly your account if you continue ... taking your earnings with it.
What you're doing is spamming, and it's a clear violation of the terms and conditions.
@Ciniful (1587)
• Canada
10 Nov 07
It sounds like you did. I'm sorry to hear that you're having problems, but you know yourself and what you can tolerate. If you just got out of an abusive relationship, then the last thing you need is to be involved with someone that you're detecting the same attitudes in. You say you were sensing him getting 'meaner' ... then that's not a person you should be with, especially while recovering from a past abusive relationship.
You'll do fine. Your instincts about the people around you are obviously good. Just follow your instincts and you'll be fine. :)
