Marriage: is it important ???
By sj_auden
@sj_auden (91)
Philippines
November 11, 2007 10:38pm CST
what do you think why should couples get married??? share ur thoughts and lets discuss why we should!!!! some peolpe think that marriage is just a formality but the deeper meaning of it is ....
3 responses
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
Yes there is a deeper meaning i think. I think that marriage is and should only be done when you are 1111111000000000% sure that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with that person. Love the person you cant live without.. thats the way I see it. Love is something shared between two people, emotions, thoughts, memories, all together. Many people get married and then get divorces.. those ae the people who are wasting their times. If your not sure that he/ she is THE ONE then dont get married. Wait until your ready, and then do so, make the move. Share the rest of your life with that one person who means more then anything to you!
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
TRUE STORY.. my bestfriend is being deported in exactly 5 days.. and it is horrible and due to the fact her parents were having too many problems.. and also, the righting caused neccessary papers to not be signed. Resuling in their deportion.. and she also has a younger sister.. and they are going to have to start their lives all over after being here for about 20 years in another country.. the schooling is different from where their from it is going to be so difficult to continue and be a part of the community being so different from living where they do now for so long.
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
13 Nov 07
well, Marriage is important for your both your present, and future! Who's gonna help them? They have family where they are going. But in many cases and circumstances the people who are being deported do not have family elsewhere.. They should have thought of ways to support themselves.
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Couples who are deeply committed should get married to put sanctity to their bond.
I believe that commitment entails selfless loving, trust and respect. If both are into it, then it's no question to get their companionship into marriage.
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Well, that is not true love. Marriage is not possible in such a circumstance. If guys are given the responsibility and not both making the bond work for them. I won't agree for marriage.
It must be worked out by both. I wonder why I wanted and choose to remain single. hehehe.
@sj_auden (91)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
even if you're deeply committed with each other and if you think your relationship is in complete stability... yes it entails selfless love, trust and respect but that doesn't make an accurate future... coz peolpe sometimes change in ways and character .. you might be influenced by friends, other people around you, media, everything around you ... as we grow old our thoughts changes too... i think guys should be responsible for making things right in a relationship ... guys should be the one to lead the track .. guys should poison her spouses' psyche
@zenmachado (1617)
• United States
12 Nov 07
To properly create a union in a relationship, it is essential to have the institution of marriage, in that relationship.
If we read the bible it shows us the complexity of the necessity of being in monogamy and a marriage. Also, if we look to all these broken homes because of divorce or broken relationships with children involved.. we can clearly see why to have a solid, worked on marriage, is the way to go.
@sj_auden (91)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
there are peolpe thinking that why get married if sooner or later youll get divorce?? its just like a waste of time and money.. as well as destroying young minds with this situation... we'll i guess before getting married you have to surrender everything to your significant other ...to establish a strong intitution of love and family... there are still families who are living happy together but not all ... there are also children who lost their tracks in life because of those reasons ...
