unfaithful partners!

Again, it depends on you. And your situation. Are you married to this person? If I were married to them, then there is no way I could live with that betrayal. You have to ask yourself if that is something you could live with. Don't even bother wondering if you could forgive and forget, because that will NEVER happen. You may be able to forgive and move on, but you will not be able to forget, believe me. And if you can't forgive them, then you need to cut your losses and move on now, before you realize five or ten years from now that you just can't move past it and you've wasted such a big part of your life. Good luck, and I'm truly sorry you have to deal with this :(

I think this is really only something the parties involved can answer, for themselves, because they are the only ones who really know how they are handling the situation. But I also think they need to look in to the reason it happened in the first place. Trouble in the marriage? Husband who doesn't care whether or not he hurts his wife? Some outside influence that needs to be removed? There are a lot of reasons. These situations can be rectified under the right circumstances and if both parties are willing to work at it. I think in the end there really is no easy"yes or no" sort of answer.

IF HE IS ADMITTING HIS MISTAKE AND READY TO CORRECT IT HE SHOULD BE ADMITTED

ya only if she or she admits...then its ok bcos he is willing to improve....othrwise if he is trying to cover up...kick hin

Well, do you think you can truly forgive him? Also, is this the first time, and do you think you can trust him not to do it again? If so, you might be able to take him back. It's a very difficult decision and I don't blame anyone who can't do so. But, some marriages do survive infidelity.

That really is a very tough question. Was this the first time?? If no than I would probably not take him back. If yes, what was the situation, a affair over a period of time or a one night stand. I don't think I could forgive the affair. But it really comes down to you. Can you get past the cheating to be able to forgive and move on, because if not it won't really work out. Just my thoughts.

i already did,because it has happened to me too and i considered we were both too young and unexperienced but i know i won't kdo it again next time

how one can do this? if its done.. i wont allow them in my life at all.. m not gonna allow one to play with my self respect, dignity..

I believe everyone deserves a second chance. Unless you have reason to believe they wont change..if they do it again sry, they got to go. It would hurt for awhile, but time heals and there are more people out there who would treat you properly..

No i wont take her back........if i be faithful to her i expect the same