How long did you breastfeed?

@foxyfire33 (10005)
United States
November 13, 2007 9:50am CST
This is for the moms that attempted breastfeeding...if you didn't that's ok too, I didn't do this well with my older children. I am celebrating today because I've made it to my ultimate goal that I didn't think I'd really be able to reach. I have been breastfeeding my youngest for (*drumroll* please, this is big news!) ONE FULL YEAR! I made it! Considering the longest I'd been able to nurse before this was 3 1/2 months, a year seemed impossible. But I set it as a goal and here we are. I'm doing great and the baby is big and heathy...as as big and healthy as can be expected anyway, his dad and I are fairly small and being the youngest of 8 he does get exposed to a lot of germs but has only had 3 illnesses in his whole year. I plan to continue for a while yet. He is definitely starting to prefer regular food but still needs me at nap time and bedtime and when he needs a cuddle. So what about the other breastfeeding moms here, past or prsent, how long were able to do it for and what goals did you set?
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Congratulations! I also had a hard time nursing my eldest. I made it to almost 6 months with him, but even those 6 months include formula supplements. I really felt bad when I weaned him, but at the time I just couldn't continue. When I had my next child I was determined to make it to the 1 year mark and I ended up quite exceeding that. My daughter nursed until she was just a week shy of turning 5. Assuming you are in the US too, you know that extended nursing is pretty uncommon here but I made a decision to do what was best for my daughter not what was popular or common. My son also self-weaned at just past 5 and my youngest (just 2 weeks old :)) will also be allowed to nurse until she's ready to wean.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Congratulations on the new baby! I really can't imagine nursing for 5 years but like you said it's not exactly the norm here. You did what you thought was best for your children and that's all that matters though. Good job mom!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
23 Nov 07
Wow eden, that is amazing you were able to nurse so long! I've heard of women nursing their babies for a few years, but never in the US, other than myself. But I didn't nurse either of my kids for as long as you did. My oldest was 3 1/2 and my youngest was 3 when I quit nursing them. I just couldn't take it anymore. Sure I could have expressed my milk and let them have it that way, but I wanted to be done with the whole thing by then. :P
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
23 Nov 07
When my first son was born I made it my personal goal to nurse him for at least one year. My mom only nursed me for a few days due to it being too painful and I made a promise to myself and my baby that I would nurse longer than that. Who knew that I would exceed my goal. I'm a little weary to say that I nursed him for 3 1/2 years as I know it's not commonplace to nurse this long in the US. I never planned to nurse this long, I even wanted to give up at times, but I just took it one day at a time and before I knew it it was over 3 years later. But one day I just had enough of it and weaned my son. Same goes for my other son. Though I didn't nurse him as long as my first. I quit shortly after his 3rd birthday.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 Dec 07
I never expected to still be doing so well...he's now just over 13 months, but I also just keep taking it one day at a time. He's showing signs of preferring regular food for meals and only "needs" me for comfort and when he's tired. I don't mind though. I've already exceeded my goal so if he weans soon I'll be satisfied. Going to 3 years or more would probably get me some pretty negative comments around here so I'm glad you had the support to do it so long.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Hahaha, I didn't mind too much either when my kids were that age. It was when they got older it got to me! LOL The only support I had was from my husband. I don't dare tell anyone in real life that I nursed my kids for so long as I have no doubt I'd get negative comments from people. It's not that I care what they think, but would rather avoid talking about the benefits of nursing until I'm blue in the face, because this is what I would do if someone was to make a negative remark. It just isn't worth it to me. I have told some people (those that asked me) I nursed my oldest until he was 2 years old. I've gotten mixed comments on this. Some (like a nurse I told) were cool with it, while others (like some family members) looked at me oddly. :P Oh well, I did what I thought was best for my babies.
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
15 Nov 07
well my friend i only had the chance to do it for 2 weeks because i ended up drying up very quickly but as long as i did it that long was all that matter.my babies got what i was suppose to give them with all the colloastriam so it worked out well.congrats to you on a year thats so great and man you saved alot of money by not having to get formula,i dont miss those days lol.pattie
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I don't even like thinking about how much formula costs for a year! Roughly $1200-1500 depending on the brand probably. Now I just have to get some boys potty trained so we won't be spending so much on diapers. I won't mind havihng only one in diapers, that will seem cheap compared to thee like we have now.
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@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
14 Nov 07
I brest fed my son for about 5 months. I had to give up as I had no milk the poor thing was starving untill I realised that. I was under a lot of stress, not eating properly and many times had to pump milk for him because I had to do things outside the house (my husband was in the army I was on my own only had my 82 year old grandmother to help me) I had to go pay the bills go to the market go to the shops. I do regret not doing it for longer but there was nothing I could have done. My son was never sick the only thing that could count as sick is having very large tonsils but that is the way he was born
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
14 Nov 07
Five months is really good too, especially with everything you had going on. I probably wouldn't have even tried if I was in your shoes! I was pretty stressed out with my 4th so I know just what you mean about that. He still nursed frequently but he must not have been getting enough because he wasn't growing as much as he should have been.
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@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
24 Nov 07
With my first who is 10 now, I was 18 and had no idea what I was doing. I nursed him for 5 days and decided it hurt too much and quit, but I pumped for him for months. When I dried up he was put on formula. My second son nursed for 15 months. My daughter who is now 6 years old, nursed for 16 months. My youngest daughter is almost 19 months and is showing no signs of wanting to wean. I am getting to the point that I really wish she would though! lol
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 Dec 07
I had no clue with my first either. I didn't know that the pain was common in first timers and would probably go away. I didn't even know pumping was an option. We're at just over 13 months now and still going. Sometimes I also wish I could take a little break from it at least. He won't take pumped bottles (although he's getting good with cups of regular milk or whatever) and he needs me when he's tired. Now that it's winter I just hate having to drag him out with me everywhere just because he'll be at home screaming for me if I don't take him.
• United States
23 Nov 07
First of all, congratulations on meeting your goal! That's a great feeling in itself! I nursed all my babies as well, but like you, didn't do as well with the first one...she liked to "chew" on the tip and I got sore nipples so badly, they bled, plus I had medical issues and was back in the hospital within a week of her birth---she was fine and I was sick, so I had to quit nursing cause of all the antibiotics they put through my IV. The second born, a boy, took to nursing like a pro, and I did much better with him, all the way to four months, until I had lost almost all my pre-pregnancy weight and was beginning to feel the strain of still eating for two. The third, another girl, also nursed easily, and I fully believe she was sent to me as a blessing, since her father left me while I was pregnant with her. Nursing her for the first time in the hospital helped me to bond with her, and that possibly saved my life, as I was extremely depressed at that time. She nursed for about four months, as well. I remarried and had a set of twins the last time, and while I wish I could have nursed them longer, I did make it two whole months before it was too much strain to try to eat and drink enough to make the enormous amount of milk it takes to feed two growing babies! LOL Again, congratulations, and keep up the good work, Mom! And thanks for starting this conversation! Very nice post!
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 Dec 07
We're still going strong at just over 13 months! I can't even imagine trying to nurse twins, I give you a lot of credit just for trying. It seems like I'm always hungry and thirsty just keeping up with the demands of one baby.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
14 Nov 07
Congrats to you. Its really good that you brestfeed your child for sucha long time. Its really good for children to be brest feed. its healthy too.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
14 Nov 07
Thanks subha! It really has been good for him.
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