the saddest part of being a girl

Read this book and you will know the difference, Men From Mars, Women From Venus by John Gray, Ph.D. read the subtitle of "Mars and Venus Together Forever". It will tell you why you feel "have to wait" while Martian is "expected to be asked" which is contradiction to Venusian way. It will tell you that Martian did not want to be "taught" before asking for the help, as if Martian will think it is more "insult" to him rather than sounds as a kind of "offering". It will tell you that Martian own time is the time he needs to fulfill his desire of spiritual side, to solve his difficulties, not by sharing it out, but rather get into his "Martian Cave" to clean those stress. Don't wait outside, and don't enter the cave, or you will get burnt by "Guardian Dragon" who is guarding the cave. It will tell you that Martian behavior is like rubber ring. One time Martian will give all, one time he will be disappeared. And many more... have fun.

It depends on the guy you're referring to, jona. And I don't actually believe that you have to teach the guy the way you wanted that guy to love you. Me, I just try to be the most romantic guy a girl could have seen, for I give my all... even could offer my life for her... :D Hehehehe