Do you like when people put "labels" on others..?

United States
November 14, 2007 7:34pm CST
DO you like it when people put "labels"on others ..and by doing so cause others to shy away from friendship with them? I remember there was a certain forum where a group labeled people and if you fell into that category..you were constantly made fun of and if you had something to say ignored.
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@jan135 (535)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
There's a good side and a bad side to this discussion. In the case you are talking about it's a bad case. I think everyone has nicknames/labels for people, not all people just some. I remember my ex husband and his friend had nickname's for quite a lot of people, it was funny to them of course. The labeled party's had no idea about there nickname's from my ex and his friend, so I couldn't see the harm. As long as no ego's are spoilt I carn't see the harm in it.
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• United States
15 Nov 07
I am not thinking of nicknames..or I would have said "nicknames" I said Labeling..and perhaps you dont know what labeling is? Here I am referring to people merely by some trait..if they have mental retardations..people say " he's retarded" instead of just seeing the person as the same as they are.. Nicknames are one thing and labeling is another.. I had a nickname too..and wouldnt call it labeling.. Labeling "scum" "no good" its names that people of one class usually give to another class which they think is lower then them.. For example.. the rich ones in the church who keep their snoots in the air and wont associate with "those" because they are not dressed right.
@jan135 (535)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
I do know what labelling is, and how you put it I agree with you. A close friend of mine has been labelled and the label is not very nice. However the people who labelled this person have since found out that the label they had given them was untrue.
• India
15 Nov 07
Hi littlefranciscan, i dont like labelling of others by anybody.exactly today we can see communities or forums like these..I HATE ________. i think it must be reported.there is a option to 'report this'. Have a nice day. Happy Myloting :-)
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• United States
15 Nov 07
Yes... reporting injusstices helps everyone ..Hatred, prejudice etc.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
Hi littlefranciscan! i do not put labels on others and I don't want being labeled as well. I think people who do this are some kinda sick and insecure themselves. Feeling more superior than others somehow make you look more foolish and people will just think that you are feeling so insecure and so rotten inside. Anyway, it is downright rude and disrespectful to do such a thing to other people. Take care and have a nice day.
@atchmon (140)
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
no.. I don't like it.. it hurts the feeling of the person.. and it is the reason why there are people who are not socially active.. :(
@david2005 (798)
• Canada
14 May 08
I don't like it when people label other people because I see it has if everyone in the world was the same than this would be a really boring place to live.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
26 May 08
i dont like when you think you know a person before you know them .