Help....Can you tell me How to show my love to a beautiful girl???

China
November 14, 2007 10:54pm CST
Yesterday I met a lovely and beautiful girl. We played together. She is a lesbian, just like me. But I think I'm not the type she loves. I'm not so beautiful. I don't have a lot of money. I'm not lovely. I don't know what she thinks about me. I just want to take good care of her. But I have no courage to say it to her,I'm afraid she will refuse me. I don't know what to do, I need your help. Thank you!
5 responses
• United States
17 Nov 07
Find some common things that you have with her. Maybe you could ask her to discuss these thing with her over a cup off coffee or soda. do not set your self up for failure because you will fail. But if you are ready for a relationship with this other woman then get to know her and let her know that you are interested in her. She might not know that yo are lesbian and is avoiding you to prevent having any embarrassment on either of you.
• China
18 Nov 07
She knows but she is so perfect while I'm just a common girl.
• United States
18 Nov 07
One persons trash is another persons treasure. don't think of your self as worthless but rather a diamond in the rough. You friend might like to help you become as lovely as she is. What I am trying to say is don't sell yourself short because you are worth much to a lot of people including yourself, you just don't know it yet.
@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
It's not about her loving you back the way you want her to. It's about you caring about her, deeply. And if that's how you think, you should just be there for her. You want to take care of her, do it. Just don't stretch your limits and give yourself some space as well. If you feel like maybe it's hurting you, then take two steps back. But if taking care of her is what makes you happy, and she doesn't seem to have a problem with it, then that's what I think you should do. :)
• China
27 Jan 08
Thank you very much. :)
• China
2 Apr 08
wow...now i have the neatly same situtaion with u,,, i dont know what she thinks about me too,,i have asked her to go out searavl times but she refused.. good luck!
@joahnna18 (368)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
You cannot jump into relationship for a minute. It takes a long period of time to know a person. So be friend with her and show that you care in that manner she will know your attitude and even if you don't have money as long as you have a heart she will love you:)
• China
23 Nov 07
Well, it's unnecessary now, because she is in love with another girl. Thank you all the same.
• United States
15 Nov 07
*sigh* from what i have seen in my journey of chasing women, you gotta be willing to put yourself out there. you can't be afraid to be rejected because it just may happen more often than you want it to. you have to take it with a grain of salt. but, in your situation, you shouldn't be setting your mind up for failure. if you really like this girl, go for it! Let her be the one to tell you no. and you may be surprised that she may actually feel the same way about you.
• China
16 Nov 07
Well, I'm not confident enough yet. But maybe I will tell her someday later. I need some time to think over it. Thank you.