do all men give value to only the beauty?
8 Dec 07
I don't think so. I have met and talk to men who don't give much value on beauty. They prefer intelligence and on how a girl handles herself and her talents. Besides I still think " the beauty of a person lies upon the eye of the beholder" .Haven't you experience it once. When your friend finds a guy handsome but to you it isn't. It works the same way on guys I think. They may not find your face pretty but theres something in you that they find beautiful. I believe beauty does not come from what you can see but what's within. I don't find a girl beautiful even if she has a pretty face but has a rude attitude.
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16 Nov 07
Not all men care much about the beauty that lies in front of them. I for one am not a "looker" of beauty alone. I have friends who are not that good looking but then they are my "bestest" friends! Now then if you talk about love, partly you look at the beauty-side of that person... but what matters is the dictates of your heart for him or her.
16 Nov 07
i agree with you thak, if we would be honest to our selves, of course we all want to talk to pretty girls and handsome guys, but a deeper relationship is different... no one ignores someone just because of his or her appearance, everyone of us has friends and appearance is not a factor in having good friends... it's in the way you value each other. may those ugly persons are ignored, maybe they also have ugly manners. people don't ignore ugly people, they only have more interest in beautiful people. but for me, i am more interested in kind and good persons,
8 Dec 07
Well, i dont think you can generalize by telling all the men. I do agree that some men give value to eternal beauty and some give value to internal beauty.. By telling Internal beauty i meant to say how nice that person is to him and to other people around.. Everyone likes to be around with good people .. dont they?? not only men every humans,animals .. everyone.. like to be with the things that they consider to give beauty to their life.. So,its just humans nature that they go for beauty over something else. So,i guess no one needs to have so much concern over them. Well,i would like to end this by saying, "Love yourself first.. you would love everybody and everybody will LOVE you inturn and be happy and spread your smile around.. "
24 Nov 07
Beauty is what both men and women look for, the women wnt to look beautiful to the men, and men actually go after beauty. It is something natural. Beautiful women too look for handsome men, they want to have children with handsome men, so that they have in their generation beautiful women and handsome men. But beauty, should not be limited to the physical for it pass the test. Beauty should be all round, the inner beauty is the most important-what point is there in having a beautiful woman for a wife but who jumps in bed with any man that crosses her way? In this case, the physical beauty becomes meaningless.
20 Nov 07
I am a man.Frankly, i will pay more attention when a beautiful girl passing by.Nothing more than this,just like stareing at butterfly winging or beautiful flowers.It is human nature.Maybe it is the same with women?For further relationship,beauty actually is less important.Character and kindnness are what i think about. Happy posting.
20 Nov 07
I don't think so. Maybe for some but as for me, I don't give much value to the beauty of others. Attracted? Yes, but there is no value in there. Looking at a pretty girl is just the same as looking at a new ps3. Its natural to be attracted to something that seems nice. I based value in their attitudes and not with their looks. There a lot of guys and girls that are good-looking but has bad attitude. Maybe you should reconsider saying all men values beautiful girl because some don't.
18 Nov 07
the more value gived,the more you should pay for it. when a man give you overmuch value ,he must plan to get reward from you . so,it's not true that beauty can get more value than a plain girl as she has to pay more for extra gain.But you can say that the beauty's chance for getting value is indeed relative more than plain women. But when it comes to true love,it's not a rule that beaty is welcomed more by men.Contrarily,many men choose a relative plain women as their lovers because personality is one's most attractive point.
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16 Nov 07
...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and only skin deep. ...Both men and women look at beautiful people. Eye candy is calorie free! However, once they get to know what is under the flesh, the relationship may not go any farther. There are some people who are shallow and immature. They would marry for such a thing as beauty or money. Does it work out in the long run? Probably not. ...My man and I never saw each other until we had estabolished a solid foundation to our relationship. Then he drove over 500 miles to meet me. Now he has moved here and lives only a few miles away. ...He thinks I am beautiful. I know I do not look 50 (I will be in six months). The court child/family assessor I had for my divorce put in her report that I was 36! (My make up must have been just right that day!) My man does not look his age either. ...Keep posting, khateya. Peace be with you. =(^;^)= Della
16 Nov 07
Well beautiful girls do attract me to threat them well but doesn't mean i did not give value to those who not pretty ^^. I have alot of femal friends that is normal look but good heart, i enjoy being with them ^^ and sometimes do make some nice feeling to gather together. For me as long is a gal then i will threat them better than guy haha..i don't know am i doing wrong =p
16 Nov 07
All men appreciates a lovely face and a fabulous body. But not all of them emphasizes on mere beauty alone. There are men who may be easily attracted to lovely women but after having their eyes satisfied with the loveliness that's before them, they seek more than face value. And truth be told, some of these men then get turned off by what they see behind that lovely face.
16 Nov 07
maybe,but i think men just give much value to beautiful girls at the first sight . after communication and getting on well with ,they will find that someone maybe is not as excellent as her appearence.so actually,they know how to value a girl in their heart. may you happy!!