what is the feeling if you were hurt??

Philippines
November 15, 2007 10:58pm CST
when you say, loving...Of course you are suppose to be ready from anything including the beautiful and exciting word-hurt.....But how does it feel???? FOr me???For so many times I have been hurting...I'm so tired to escape from it....Everytime I'm hurting I used to preteng and that made me depressed...I'm laughing everytime problem is topic....I don't know why I used to pretend when I'm so depressed in problems/...what should I do????
2 responses
• United States
16 Nov 07
dear fegrace, when you are hurting just remember the whole ying and yang of it. there is nothing in this whole world that doesn't come with it's counterpart! some examples are...in giving birth, the mother experiences intense pain, but after the pain a baby is born...when the glassmaker blows the glass sculpture he's creating it is in the fire, but the end result is something of great beauty and perfection...students face so many challenges in school and the end result is the glory of graduation day. etc etc etc. the butterfly starts out as a catepiller and then becomes a thing of grace. think about it pain is only the opposite of pleasure, and while one is with you at the moment on your stage, the other is waiting to come out from backstage to interupt take care, stanzi
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
what would I suppose to do??? can you tell me?? does letting this feeling free might help me??
• United States
21 Nov 07
dear fegrace, what you are supposed to do is not be so shocked when you have pain, because it will automatically come into your life, just like the opposite..pleasure does!...does this help, let me know!..stanzi
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
but we cannot say and we do not know what will be are reaction nor feelings when we accidentally been hurt...huhuh...don't really know what to do
@zanybrio (76)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Its the best said: If you love somebody, let him/her go, if he/she return, he/she is yours else he/she never was So, as what I have understood from your question: If you are hurt in love its because he/she was not the right one for you Keep your Chin up and hope for best and keep eyes open for the right one IF you feel depressed read some positive thinking books , watch comedy movie or serials and you will feel light and strength to fight depression Good Luck
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
yes thats right...I'm not deserved to be hurt because I'm thoughtfully loving a person....Yes you're right too, because I would not able to go through my right distance if I would not going to forget him and not getting ready and accepting the reality...