does she still loves me? i need your help

India
November 16, 2007 1:38am CST
I have been in love with a girl for long time now.she belongs to an orthodox family and since we belong to different communities ,our affair wont be accepted by her family.now she tries to purposefully avoidme,she talks to me but in her voice she seems to have no feeling for me.what do you think does she still love me?should i pressurise her to come back to me because i cant think of a life without her
2 responses
• China
16 Nov 07
you falling in love for a long time,just because you from different communities, if you love her from your heart, that't not the problem,don't give her any pressure,but do something that her parents like ,try your best to get close to them ,finally they will accept you .
• India
16 Nov 07
Thats what even i tell her,but she always says her parents wont angry.please tell me some ways to impress them.
@Logicer (13)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
If she's the one for you, you don't need to do anything but wait for fate to take place. If you're the aggressive type, try to make her miss you somehow. But one thing you should not do is pressure her to come back to you. This will only push her even further away from you or worse, kill your chances with her. You need to learn to wait... only time will tell what will happen to your relationship. Try not to cling onto her, there are many girls out there, you just can't see that because you're blinded by hormones expressing strong emotions for this particular one. If you were to ask for my advice, I'd stay away from her and just try to find someone "easier to love". If you're a fate-defying person, then go and spend $1000 to write something on the clouds for her. I'd be practical and just do nothing if I were you :) Good luck.
• India
16 Nov 07
even thats now i am doing,just remaining as a silent spectator.