Should we trust someone who has cheated sum of ur best friends..
@shantharamshenoy (131)
India
November 16, 2007 7:00am CST
One of my friend has a friend who has had as of now 7-8 boy friends and i dont know hw many more she has..he seems to be i very gud terms wid her..but ever since i came to know of her relationships i was worrried a bit..i did tell him about this but he wud not listen...what do you think is rite..is his trust in the girl correct????
4 responses
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
16 Nov 07
I am really shocked on hearing the number of affairs your friends friend is having.7-8 boy friends means hse must have been having time only for these many boys.let me tell you that she is a sure flirt from the small description that you have given about her.i think you should better pull out your friend from having any sort of relationship with her because i dont think she can ever be a good friend.now talking about the trust he has in her ,the very fact that she has moe than 7 boy friend just highlights her character.it means she can never be happy with one or two.you better make him understand that a girl of that character would never show any commitments in any of her relationships and that one day he would surely be hceated.if he still doesnt listen to your words,its better you leave him to fate and then he will learn his lesson.
@shantharamshenoy (131)
• India
16 Nov 07
i did try in all ways to make him aware about this girl but he doesnt listen...seems to me that the best way now is to make him see the truth with his own eyes..i mean let the ppl this gal has played with talk to him..may b this wud knock sum sense into him..i hope this works ..else he's headed for sum big truble..
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
16 Nov 07
i think that would be a great idea.but see that you do it carefully.a small mistake can cause a big trouble.
@corinnethewriter (62)
• United States
16 Nov 07
what were your intentions when u told ur friend about the girl? if it was looking out for his wellbeing, then, that's alright. and do you know this girl? sometimes, people say things about people or pass judgment on other people's lives and they don't know the details. for example, i have guys coming and going from my house, but i don't sleep with any of them. to the untrained eye, it could look like i'm running a brothel, but that's not the case. just be careful.
@shantharamshenoy (131)
• India
16 Nov 07
i did say that for his well being..i know the girl but not very well...met her a few times only..but she is very popular for all the wrong reasons..i don't say that she's been sleeping with her exes but she seems to be using them to get some work done or use them to show off or use their mney for personal benefits..dunno whats going...hope everything turn towards the good
@paintwet (165)
• China
16 Nov 07
some feeling always exist between the two people who fall in love each other,and in that time they always can heard nothing.
but something is always magic.the feeling often disappear in several month.and in that time ,they will say bye-bye each other. i think it is in gear.
@Fannylao (124)
• China
16 Nov 07
I actually don't know how to deal with this situation because I have such a friend.She is my roomate and she has three boy friends.I don't like the way she makes friends but I can do nothing.At the same time,I must get on well with her,we must stay together for four years!
