113,251 members on mylot--still none active????

question mark - where is everyone??
@anuj291 (575)
India
November 19, 2007 7:40am CST
this is the figure that i currently see on mylot and stil when i start a discussion about anything,, i get initial responses and then my discussion just gets lost reasons 1)people not active on mylot 2)people just concentrate on posting rather than trying to reply i have seen people postin 10 to 12 discussions in one day..i dont get it,some of them just get repetitive,and fooloish at times, i guess we all should try and make mylot the best site there can be make evryone your friend,interact with the maximum possible i personally start a discussion once a week,,the reason being i am not able to comeup with anything so interstin so easily,,so i try to reply back wheneva i come back on mylot COMMON PPL REPLY MORE TO EVERYONE-this will help u to earn money and reputation at mylot plz fill in your comments,and let me know your side thnx and tc
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@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
This has been a problem from the start, I guess you don't have to get bothered too much about it and just enjoy your time here. Back then when we were just about 50,000 members, we always receive a great number of responses. Most of them are well-put and always enjoyable to post at. But now, it seems that other members here are just out to post and earn then leave the responses they receive uncommented. Thank you though for letting us know how you feel, I hope that with this post of your's you'll get to meet more friends that'll help you in every possible way..
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
yes you are right, i had joined in initial stages as well,,but then i was never active ,i forgot about the site,,now i wish i had been active since then,,anyways its ggood to have u along thnx and tc
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@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
19 Nov 07
Haha, you're missing one... people like me who are too busy stalking their friends and commenting on their posts to actually reply or post many discussions. :P I'll try to keep a better eye out for your discussions though... I want to help you out. :)
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
well yes,,u being my very first friend on mylot how is everything with u ..i see very less of you these days on mylot even i am havin difficult times to come on net
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@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
19 Nov 07
I've been a little caught up in my own little world these days, so I haven't been a very good friend. I'm sorry. Right now things are very strange for me. I'm finally getting back to work after being out for illness for a long time, my moods have been all over the place, and I've been having some issues with my marriage. So I'm at one of those places where I'm not sure what I'm doing right now.
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
well i am sure u will figure everything out,and everything will soon be k just listen to your heart and do wht u think is right
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@nishurs (582)
• India
20 Nov 07
ya there are many inactive members in the mylot but not that much as you think yaar see i am posting response to you
@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
well thnx my friend for takin the time and replyin back,,but believe me there is a huge no. that is inactive
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@braedon0 (75)
• Canada
19 Nov 07
hay i try to reply to at least 10 people a day. I also open around 10 deseions a day.
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
see if u make that replyin back to 19 ppl and make one discussion per day ,believe me u will have a lot more responses and it will be a lot more effective,,try it out
@Lightlord (379)
• Greece
19 Nov 07
Well that is bad but thrue :( Everyone just wants to make more money, not make some friends. That's not like me but I do make some more discussions daily, but only when I see that there is no such discussion... so I first use search, and I would like to recommend to everyone to use search so the site won't be full of junk and repeated stuff.
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
thats very nice,,that u first search and then post a discusson keep up the good work
@Celanith (2334)
• United States
19 Nov 07
yes I have four friends I invited a year ago and they none of them ever have been active which really annoys me. I don't post or comment daily as I just have a lot of other things I do at home but I try and get on at least 2-3 times a week and comment and occassionaly if I come up with some question to post that is reasonably intelligent I do that. I think Mylot should delete non active members if not active after 3 or 6 months. They are just occupying space and not participating which is the purpose here to help one another earn income small as it maybe.
@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
yes mylot shuld def delete the inactive members, i guess 3 months is more than enough,,but i guess its afraid that it will see a huge cut down of its members
@kwenge (2492)
• Kenya
19 Nov 07
I spend alot of time here in mylot posting responses to new discussion and discussions with no responses, I dont mind who posted the discussion as long as it ie interesting. I only post one discussion per day or sometimes i go without posting.
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
good job my friend,,posting to newbies discussions shold be promoted more i guess,,we all should welcome every new member and make him feel like home,,so that he can easily cope up with difficulties over here,and feels free to express thnx and tc
• United States
19 Nov 07
113,255 members now that im posting, and yes i definitly agree with everything your saying. I start a new discussion about once every week simply because i don't feel like taking up space with a topic im not very passionate about. While i like the fact that myspace gives you money for your posts, sometimes i wish they didn't simply because some people are only here for the money and not for making connections with other people. PS: i added you as a friend haha
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
well thnx for the add,,its always nice to meet new ppl, and become friends and good that u reply back to discussions,,noice to see my frind, keep up the good work thnx and tc
• United States
19 Nov 07
I agree that some of the topics being posted are repetitive and foolish. I have only posted 3 discussions myself. I find it hard to come up with topics that have not been started. replying is easier in my opinion. - Mike
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@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
yes my frind, i have seen your activity in recent times, and i am very happy that we have people like u on mylot,,who reply back to almost everyone, keep up the good work thnx and tc
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I would think that for those people they just enjoy making the money and not really making the connection with others. I also would like to have others enjoy what I have to say, I would like to debate and I will reply to everyone who answers me.
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
well first i would like to welcome you to mylot my friend, hope everyon replies to everyone i guess havin a thinkin of that i will reply to all those who reply to me is not such a good way of thinkin,,cuz in that way i dont think u will be able to get to know a lot of ppl, i reply to whtsoever inrterestin i find,regardless of who started it,,be it a topshot or a newbie anyways thnx for replyin back thnx and tc
@subha12 (18452)
• India
20 Nov 07
Hi anuj. thanks for the discussion. You are quite right in number of discussions some people start each day.I have also noticed this. One day i got notification for a friend's started discussion for 12 times withing 30 minutes! its asurd i think. Here due to lot many post and all, replies are poor except few discussions which gets loads of responses.
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@lancingboy (1386)
• United States
20 Nov 07
Personally, I mostly reply to posts. I do start my own once I get an idea of something people might respond to. So far, I've had many discussions getting lost because they don't get any responses lol. I check my e-mail everyday just to see if I get responses through either a discussion I started, or someone replying to something I posted in another person's discussion.
@hhhxxccc (222)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Interesting, even though i've only been a member of this community for a couple hours, i see it as being very active?
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@alamode (3073)
• United States
20 Nov 07
I'm so busy responding that I barely have time to post anything! I will answer the same subject twice... after that, its just repetitive. I have so many responses and notifications in my inbox that I sometimes can't keep up, so I put them in a folder for later. It may take a while for me to answer, but I will answer!
@anuj291 (575)
• India
22 Nov 07
yes my friend i have seen that,, its nice to have u as a friend, i have noticed that u always reply back to almost everyone,,keep up the good work tc
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@alamode (3073)
• United States
23 Nov 07
I always answer my friends if I feel I have something to contribute, then in many cases I will pick another question from the bottom of the page or from the new posts. That way, I can also communicate with people outside my circle of friends, and possibly make new friends. I am on many sites, but I like to be here... there are more people who are friendly and WANT to interact. Its just so much more interesting! Take care, my friend!
@anuj291 (575)
• India
23 Nov 07
yes u are right,same with me, i always come back to mylot,cuz of all my friends over here,and cuz of no business things and links,,its so social /friendly over here feels very nice
@elemental69 (1562)
• Ireland
20 Nov 07
Hi anuj291, I very rarely start discussions. I wouldnt really have a good one either. Some nights I would be on a roll and could start 4 or 5 discussions. But usually I try to answer as many discussions as I can. The omly thing that stops me from answering all of them is that I wouldnt have an answer or I wouldnt know anything about what the dixcussion is about. :-)
@anuj291 (575)
• India
22 Nov 07
well put,,same goes for me,,i hope every one replies more and more and we see this forum back on its feet
@Monkeyrose (2849)
• Canada
20 Nov 07
I agree. I have a sick day and I can't find anymore discussions to post to. All of them have my name as the last response! There are some discussions that I just cannot respond to though. Sometimes you have nothing to say on a subject.
@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
i understand wht u mean,,happens to me all the time,, i dontunderstand the person who strted the discussion is not replyin back to wht u said...!!!!!!!
@raizza07 (98)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
they are just making money and not making friends. most of them are selfish.
@anuj291 (575)
• India
20 Nov 07
i guess wht people dont realize is that they wil make a lot more when they reply rather than startein a new discussion every second
• India
19 Nov 07
Hello Anuj....i can understand what you are trying to say. But there are people like me as well who are into multi tasking and try to reply through the mail...thats when i miss some discussions but otherwise i try to reply to almost all my friends discussions....take care have fun and happy mylotting
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
its always nice to hear from a friend,,no problem,just tc thnx and tc
@foxyfire33 (10009)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I have two reasons or this kind of behavior: #1 they care more about the money than friendships so they don't want to waste time posting on the same discussion over and over. #2 They are really busy, like me, and get distractd by real life and forget which discussion to go back to. I made a total of 10 posts in the past two days because I couldn't even use the computer. I'm back at it today and trying to go through only my friends' discussions first. I may not stay on top of things very well but I'm trying!
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
its cool ,,when u get busy its k,, but altealt when ppl are fre they shuld reply back,,and yes i dont understand why u care about the money, u are getting enough from other sites,, the best part about mylot is that it helps us to make new and good friends
@aaidjs (1149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
19 Nov 07
hello dear,I try to do the Best from my side!I love my friends here and I enjoy in new discussions!But am I little older than you,second I have large family/I spend more than 6 hours in kitchen every day/so you can understand why I cant make response on all discussions or posts!I hope that you will find me as a good friend!See you and Regards Silvana
@anuj291 (575)
• India
19 Nov 07
yes dear, i know that u are busy and its totally cool ,atleast u reply back in the time u get,,have a gr8 day,thnx for replyin back tc