what women see in men?

@racsface (122)
Malaysia
November 19, 2007 11:02am CST
what is the first thing would women see in men? Is it all about money, look or position?
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6 responses
• India
19 Nov 07
I sometimes wonder what I see in men :) Well, looks are important. I am sure no woman would like to hang around with a wheezing pot bellied guy with a bald head. But he need not be Mr. Universe either. He need not be as rich as Mukesh Ambani, but he should be able to make and manage money. No woman would like to have her kids sent back home because Papa can't pay the fees. As for position, he need not be famous or anything like that. But he should not have a bad reputation in society either. I admire kindness and gentleness in men. I would hate going out with a man who bullies waiters and kicks the cat.
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• United States
20 Nov 07
It is too bad looks are so important to you. Your chances of not getting the kind gentle man you want goes down with that. Most of the beautiful people know they are and act accordingly.
@racsface (122)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 07
Yes, even money is not everything, but now everything is money right.
@diillu (5121)
19 Nov 07
I think it is about "protection" that a women looks in a men. A women needs to feel secure and protected around men. So, usually women go for the men who can provide them security. It may mean financial security or the feelings of secureness that a women can feel around men. This is my point of view. I think it may differ according to different person.
@racsface (122)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 07
You are very true. Thank you for your respond.
@garnet80 (354)
• Australia
28 Nov 07
The first thing I notice is a man's eyes. A good personality helps of course but definitely the eyes are the first drawcard.
• United States
26 Nov 07
I use to think women care about looks but after seeing a beautiful woman with an ugly man it has me wondering. Maybe they care about money but I am not sure if the ugly man is rich or not.
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
25 Nov 07
"What women see in men?" Depends on where you are, but most times they see someone they can change. Been reading a lot of cases of it, and almost got subjected to it myself. Well if you want a less mundane answer I'll say this then. Its looks, personality, average or better social/economic status (yes plenty still want it). And if you want an answer to the first thing women see, its the looks, obviously. Go out to some hangouts, bars, even some unexpected public places. You may catch situations where the women just zero in on the looks (because the first impression is always based on it). You don't look like their preconception, they'll call you on it under their breaths or whispering to girlfriends. You wear a suit, some may assume you've got something. You're bald or greying, they'll automatically assume "old". Etc and so forth.
@nkhanna (925)
• India
20 Nov 07
well i think women look for an honest and a loyal man first.this is definately for those women who want to get into a serious and long term relationship.however if its jjust itme pass then she will go for money and look and position.because i guess every wife would like to have a hubby who is loyal to her,repects her emotions anf feelings,be very loyal to her.if these things are there then money,and position can always follow a man natime.look for me should not be given any socre because its the last thing that comes in the mind.but ya for a timepass boyfriend looks,money is all that matters.