A true love can be without passion?

Argentina
November 21, 2007 9:44am CST
Hello, I am with some one since five years. We have some issues like anyone else, but since a few years I have loose my passion for him. I can´t find him atractive to me ay all.. so here comes the big question. I it possible to have a realtion ship of true love with someone you don´t feel atractive?? It is true that the passion goes away after a some years and only the loves stays? How you can make love with someone you don´t feel atractive? Is this normal to every one? Thanks!
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@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I think a lot of people confuse love and lust. Yes, it is quite possible to have true love without passion. I think when you say passion you are describing lust. Every relationship goes through ups and downs with the amount of passion you feel. The underlying love, though, is always there. That is the day to day love. Now, if you completely don't feel attracted to him, there may be a reason why. You need to explore if you are bored and not doing your part in making the relationship one that can be held together. Perhaps something happened between the two of you that is making you back away. I can't tell since I obviously don't know you, but I can tell you from experience that a lack of passion often indicates a comfortableness that I wouldn't trade for anything.