psycho or lover of the lovers ?
By supriyorajj
@supriyorajj (169)
India
November 22, 2007 1:51am CST
Hello friends now i am going to discuss about my one of the best friend.near about four years ago he has fallen love of a beautiful girl.she is junior of our college.at first they was a very good friend at our college. but when he was going to propose the girl .the girl refused him because she has a boy friend.To know all about this the boy became too frustrated.but till now he is trying about the girl.
on the other hand the girl is totally depended on him about any types of matter in our college when she is facing any problem , she always complain to him.but always like to the boy as his very good friend.on the other hand the boy have done some attitude like psycho s he has cut his hand, he has burn his hand as well as he has also broken his hand.but the girl don't know about this.sometime he also involved with some fights with his friends.
I love both of them but i don't know what can i do?
on the other hand the boy too much genius boy because he got proposed by the girl everyday.but he always refused them because he said that he has only one girl friend that is that girl.
so friend what is he ??
a lover of all lovers yea a great psycho?????????
6 responses
@season0907 (671)
• India
22 Nov 07
Hi supriyorajj,
Your friend is defenitely not a psycho or depressed. He is immature as far as his life is concern.He feel at this jucture love is the only thing in life and that he has to succeed in that.He is more fighting to show to others how he desperately wants her.Because the girl has already told him no to his love.
Tell him that there are plenty of things in life to achieve and love is only part of it, which he can get more from any body he marries.Ask him not to put his life in trouble just because of a girl, that too who has refused his love.
It is all his friends including you to bring him back to actual life from artificial life. Do it from now onwards. He will be allright..... and I wish him the same.
@supriyorajj (169)
• India
22 Nov 07
thank to you for your nice reply.we all friend always trying to this.its our more headache the he is going to trouble his hand.but my friend is really a good love and i think hi is not a mentally trouble person.
@jvfernanso (26)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
Love is really one questionable feeling...you can not teach one to mend one heart....only he himself can make it go away....continue to be a friend to him and spend time with him..it would make a difference you'll see, it may take sometime, but in time he could get over it....as they say TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS! no matter how great is the love nor how hurt a person maybe, there would come a time that he would get tired of hoping and you'll see, he would wake up from a bad dream and move on...i just hope its sooner....i had the same experience in the past...i had a long time boyfriend of almost 6 years then suddenly we separeted ways, i did qall sort of things anyone could imagine, but in vain nothing happened....it took me 7 years to recover...how? i just wake up one day and said to myself, enough....i guess i get`tired of waiting and hoping....perhaps the wound he'd caused healed by itself. Now, here i am carefree and happy....just give it time...he'll survive, just let him feel he had friends who cared...:) sometimes, when you're inlove, you do things nobody could understand not even the one person who's feeling it.
@SanDslnrs (268)
• United States
23 Nov 07
I think your friend loves this girl very much, and just doesn't know how to handle his emotions. He should try talking to someone before his behavior gets out of hand. I realize it must be hard for him to be in love with her and she already has a boyfriend. Did she lead your friend into believing she wanted a relationship with him, or is she just a friend to him? Let us know how he does.
@smoke_gun (1243)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 07
as a friend of him,i think you should give some advises to your friend.now he was hurt himself,later maybe he will hurt others when he can't control his jealous,angry,hopeless or sadness emotion to the girl and her boy friend.psycho always normal before they turn to mad!
@subathra (3519)
• India
22 Nov 07
He is not a psycho but seems he is madly in love with that girl despite the fact that she loves someone else..eventhough he knows this fact his mind and heart is not accepting this and he still loves her.this is the extreme blindness of love and this is not a unusual case and there are lot of people who behave in this manner and get hurt themselves badly..this is not a good stage for your friend to continue and he may face crucial consequences mentally..
I suggest you guys to take him for counselling so that he may understand that his love will not be a sucessfull one..since you say that he is a brilliant boy ..try to bring him out of this and focuss him towards his career..
@hongys1019 (39)
• China
23 Nov 07
I think your friend is too love that girl.so he do anything for that girl which he felt is worth.you should tell that girl these things about your friend had done.she should do some things for him.
