How you will react????????????????

@2babita (1072)
India
November 24, 2007 10:33am CST
Hello friends,how you feel when your loved one say he/she say he/she do not care for you or love you,how you will react in this situation???????????????/
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9 responses
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
27 Nov 07
At that point of time, I would be shocked unless I sort of expected it. I have learnt in such a situation never to react but to keep cool. It is always reaction that causes one to be confused and make poor decisions which one may regret forever. Hence, my suggestion is not to react but to keep cool. Perhaps asking and agreeing to a cooling down period helps.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
26 Nov 07
I will be surprised of course. If I do really love the guy then I will be hurt. Later, if the reasons will be given and it is justifiable, then I can understand maybe. But if really love has been developed and you are both showing and sharing, and hearing that from your love, it is hurting really.
@noriko (1254)
25 Nov 07
i will be hurt of course, but i wont show. he doesnt love me then there is nothing to talk about. i'll trun around and go. then when i am alone i will cry.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
Of course I will cry coz I will be pitty on my self after what I have done for him it will end up not loving me anymore. But after crying I will faced the reality if he don't love and care for me anymore, I will accept it he is not right for me he does not deserve my love and care. So why I will spent my time for him he only wasted it.
@dbhattji (2506)
• India
26 Nov 07
I would just try to forget that person because otherwise it would be too painful.
• Australia
25 Nov 07
It would depend on the situation. If I had been with them for a while, and not seen it coming, I would be a mess. Luckily, I'm in a great relationship and would be hard pressed getting rid of him! lol. Not that I want to (ok, there are days I want to kick him out the door!). I guess I would let them go, pick myself up and carry on. You can't force someone to love you and the way they feel can change over time. Remember that no matter what, you are a good person. if they aren't in the same place as you, then there isn't really a lot you can do about that. Just remember the good times and carry on with the fond memories close to your heart.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Nov 07
i will definitely feel bad. But one should also think that love can't be achieved forcefully.so one should understnd this situation also. But it is more sad when a person who once told you he/dhe loved you but later behave very rudely with you.
@cwilson26 (2735)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I would certainly be crushed, that's for sure. I am in love with my husband so much and he with me but if he ever stopped loving me I don't know if I could handle it. I guess I would have to because I obviously cannot force him to love me. It would definitely break my heart in two though. :(
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
I guess, I just have to be open with it. I mean, I can not force him to love me or something to convince him because it's his feelings, and forcing him to love him is like asking for pity or asking for love out of pity, which should not be the case. Hearing that from someone you love really would break me, and that sucks. :(