5 Nov 11
I noticed that most of people are quick to categorize and judge a person after the first pulse, or after uncontrolled whims of the idea of ??first impression, things that are totally wrong and reactions to the person. You can not say you've already met someone only after events and discussion deprived background or contact, you can not blame someone for issues discovered and interpreted only by you, do not rush to make decisions for the good both of you, do not have this law, it gives you no one, not even to you is not correct. Indicated would be to try to know the man better, if he is not able to help you to let you find him, help him understand what you want from him, share his feelings, is likely to be mutual trying to convey in your reasoning and feelings to appreciate things at their true value, extends his arm to rise when he was not aware of that is down, these are values ??and facts you can make a special person and great, not artificial reactions and decisions, not advice and admonitions that I give them, but you do not believe that. Why hurry to reject someone, if you do not even know your own intentions, from someone that is so bad to try to harmonize a man or a relationship, no, no! But to run away from yourself is easier and more convenient to blame the other, not to recognize your fear is easier to run when you need to stay. Have you ever thought that can not only blame him, you thought that maybe you do not have set right from the start true directions, those coming from the heart, not the coming of pride? And so we risk can always remove people we need people who can help us in time, people who can teach us something. And that, only big mistake of judging a man by issues and not by deeds.