can love become hatred in a relationship?

@wendy805 (261)
China
November 26, 2007 8:57am CST
have you ever hated anyone you once loved very much? do you believe that love someone too much will lead to deep hatred when they have conflicts and broke up? can you hate a person you love? what do you think is the relationship between love and hatred? is there a line between the two, fi you cross the line, it becomes the other?
5 responses
29 Nov 07
Maybe I've just been in very poisonous relationships, but yes, I have hated people I once loved, and, ironically enough, they're both guys I was engaged to. I think one of the only things that can change a relationship that drastically is betrayal - whether it be emotional, or physical, being 'stabbed in the back' by someone you love is always going to lower your opinion of them.
@wendy805 (261)
• China
30 Nov 07
i am sorry for you. good luck from now on.my friend!
• India
26 Nov 07
To love someone is good thing. To be loved by someone is even better a thing. But the best thing in the world a human can sense is to love someone who loves the lover intensely. At times there might come certain situations in which the hatred factor fetches the problems to its optimal level.But then the best possible stuff in the situations of such accord is to get to the normalcy as early as it is possible.If you love the other,do not wait for whose turn is to mend up the relationship,just take the initiative,because in love the separation level must be cypher.
• India
26 Nov 07
I am sorry the net connection ccaused this misdemeanor.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Nov 07
Hello there. Through personal experience, I think love cannot become hatred. My heart was broken before and I tried to make myself hate the other person but I failed. It's not easy to hate a person whom you have cared about before. The easier thing to do is to learn to let go and wish him all the best. By letting the other person go, you are also freeing yourself and allowing yourself to move on. There's no point in hating as it only makes oneself feel more miserable.
• India
26 Nov 07
To love someone is good thing. To be loved by someone is even better a thing. But the best thing in the world a human can sense is to love someone who loves the lover intensely. At times there might come certain situations in which the hatred factor fetches the problems to its optimal level.But then the best possible stuff in the situations of such accord is to get to the normalcy as early as it is possible.If you love the other,do not wait for whose turn is to mend up the relationship,just take the initiative,because in love the separation level must be cypher.
@monty24 (154)
• India
26 Nov 07
Well I have no experence.But I think it can happned if anyone does drastically wrong and if it effect the person concern too much.There is heaven and hell difference between love and hate so if anyone cross the line it definately turns the other.