Would You Take Him Back?

United States
November 26, 2007 5:50pm CST
I need some educated opinions on if I should take my husband back. I left him Dec 3, 2005 and we have been separated for going on two years. When I left back in 2005 I wasn't aware that I was expecting our first child together. He moved in with a woman after I left him for verbal abuse and his substance abuse. He says he is clean now. I can't comment one way or another on that matter. But when I found out I was pregnant with our first child I wanted to go back to him, but he was in a relationship with another woman. He has since been trying to leave her and come back to me. I don't know. This is my first husband. We had discussed divorce only because he was with the other woman. He calls me secretly. I ask him to tell her what he is doing he always assures me he will. I still Love him. I really need him to be their to help raise our son. I tell you power of prayer works. During the time we were together my husband would pray every night for a baby and by golly he got his wish. The sad part is he is not around to help raise his gift he prayed for. I need some honest opinions.
1 response
@emarie (5451)
• United States
8 Jan 08
You shouldn't get back together with him just because of the child. Regardless of weather your together or not, he'll always be in your life now since you both share the child. If you two don't love each other, then you shouldn't go on with it. If he's serious about coming back he has to be clear with his current girlfriend and make a decision. Then he has to prove to you that he's really changed. This along with marriage/couples counseling should help you make your choice.