thinking and (gasp!) wishing
By maictorek
@maictorek (83)
Philippines
November 27, 2007 7:00am CST
i met a guy a couple of years back. he was sweet and funny. we became friends. later i realized i wanted more than that. in the end, we were just friends.
now i have a partner of my own. he's funny and sweet. life couldn't get any better.
out of nowhere i suddenly remember my friend. as much as i wanna send out a casual 'hi', i feel guilty. so this is how it feels to give up on someone you (used to) is this even normal?
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3 responses
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
27 Nov 07
Yeah I guess that usually happens in life when there are times we forego with the things we want and get another thing. all of a sudden you have that "what if" feelings. I think you've already made a choice and I can see that you are happy with where you are right now. Why make it complicated? Go on and move forward and be happy and responsible for the choices you've committed to yourself and your partner. The "What ifs" will haunt you but you only need to shift your feelings towards your current relationships and stay and feel the love your experiencing with your partner then I think you've answered your questions already.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
27 Nov 07
i think that this is normal... we always wonder what life would be like if we had done this or that...i often think about a guy who had a crush on me in highschool and what would have happened if i went out with him, would i be married to the guy i am now? have the kids i do? hmmmm...
