Talking to someone new
November 27, 2007 8:34am CST
Has anyone ever seen someone who, you knew they liked you and/or were attracted to you too, but never could find any way to talk to them? My situation is a bit more difficult than that of the typical infatuation...I am a woman and the person I am interested is a woman as well. That's one problem...the other one is that we live in an area where people are not very accepting of this lifestyle...How can I talk to this young lady without getting myself in trouble? She has used my truck that she likes as an icebreaker, but at that time, I didn't quite see her as I do now...She works at this store in town but I cannot bring myswelf to go in there more than a once a month visit..just feel like my feelings are on my shirt like some marquee...what do I do?
29 Nov 07
I guess, you have to start things casually, just like any heterosexual flirting. Get to know her better. Anyways, I guess, part of your problem too is the fact that you are not OUT. I mean, part of who you really is kept inside you which I feel is more of a disadvantage because you tend to limit yourself to the things within your comfort zone. I do find your situation quite complicated. :) But hey, good luck. :)
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30 Nov 07
Thanks for the reply...In all honesty, I am COMPLETELY OUT..It's her that seems inward, confused and not sure what to do...I would like to talk to her, but fear that my "gaydar" might be off? Not sure, but she sure does stare a lot and does try to talk at any given time...Any thoughts?