do you believe in love at first sight?
November 28, 2007 6:13am CST
i personally believe that real love develops people that you spend time with. and not people you just meet. and i think that this should be reason while people's mirrages and relatonships get seperated because they feel for this love at first sight thing some time in the past.
• United States
29 Nov 07
Several years ago I noticed someone (just standing in line at lunch) that I was instantly drawn to. I was dating someone else at the time, but I could not get this guy off my mind. Several months later we actually "met" each other officially for the first time, at a BBQ, while I was with my boyfriend. Turns out he "noticed" me too that day months prior. Long story short I left the BBQ with his number and with every intention of ending the relationship I was in; which I did 1 week later. We dated for several years before ending our relationship amicably and as friends. I do agree that love grows and deepens over time. And that there is value in courtship and friendship. I also feel that often times people confused LOVE with LUST or INTRIGUE.
28 Nov 07
the first appearance of a person can be the most deceptive part of that person. and thabt is why a longe courtship is always recommended by mirrage counsellors or better than that it is beter to just stay know somebody spend time with the person and over some time when you have really known the person then love develop within you and that way the couple tend to know each other better. the reason why i support this is that if the couple know you that thry people are in a love relationship, like it or not there will be a lot of pretense from both sides and that will eventually backfire in if they get married.