My friend is going through a really tough time....

Australia
November 29, 2007 12:48pm CST
My friend loves this one girl who is married to her cousin. We live in florida & she lives in LA. The girl & her cousin never had any husband wife relation they got married to help the girl. In exchange for that, the girl worked for her cousins family for 5years & also supported her cousin for 2 years where he didnt worked at all. But now the girl wants to have her family & kids and this guy is acting really crazy. The girl told her cousin about her future plan that one day she will have her family & this marriage is only to help me. Now the guy is doing stuff like For example, hiding her laptop cord & snaching her mobile if she is talking to my friend + she feels very scared about the whole situation. Would you please suggest how to deal with this situation. I advised him to tell his girl to get a restraining order against her husband to be on a safe side coz it seems like day after day her cousin is going crazy. Thanks for your posts
1 response
@Estina54 (385)
• United States
29 Nov 07
They definitely can't work out, it is a very bad marriage so, why is still willing to be in it? Is she going to lose materially if she divorces him? Some people live together because they have to, not because they still love each other.
• Australia
29 Nov 07
According to my friend, she still feels to be in the debt of her cousin & his family. She doesnt care about the material things, infact all the things in the house belongs to the girl. But she doesnt want things to end in a hard way with hard feelings for eachother. Any suggestion please?