Is a relgion an individual's identity?
By mansha
@mansha (6298)
India
5 responses
@vikashsabharwal (552)
• India
4 Dec 07
Religious beliefs are a very much part and parcel of one's life but it is not the only thing that makes one's individual identity. The other things that have impact on individual's identity may be,
1) The family members and their character.
2) The surrounding the person lives in,
3) His friend circle,
4) His interests,
5) Media
and many more other things do have an impact on one's identity.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
3 Dec 07
I think that your identity is made of many things. Religious beliefs (or lack thereof) might be one of those things, but they're certainly not the only thing.
I do think that your religious beliefs can greatly shape your life. In my case, if it weren't for my beliefs, I think I would be a lot different. I had a really bad childhood, and it was my Gods that made me want to survive that, to a large extent. So I see the fact that I am a Celtic Reconstructionist Pagan to say a lot about me: my honor code, putting my beliefs ahead of fitting in where I live, doing a LOT of research to learn about my religion, spending hour after hour in meditation searching for personal revelation for those things that history has lost, putting a strong emphasis on personal responsibility, etc.
However, those who seem to think that my religion is all there is to me find themselves quite surprised when I reveal the rest of my personality and life. :)
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@mansha (6298)
• India
4 Dec 07
I must ask you this in all fairness, I do noty wish to hurt you but will you feel threatened if smeone remarks nagatively on your beliefs so much that you would kill that person for it. My question arises from a debate on a TV channel. Hence I am intrigued. I also had a bad child hood but see how extremly different my response has been, I have lost faith in this thing called religion. I beleive in a God that belongs to all and I see the process of worshiping just a medium for self healing and nothing else. We do it for ourselves in whichever way we have been taught to. I was wondering two troubled souls faced with adversity-but react in different way to same thing. Its interesting , isn't it.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
4 Dec 07
*laughs* I grew up in a place where my great-grandmother and I were the only people of my religion. I spent my whole early life being mistreated and ridiculed for my religious beliefs. I have occasionally gotten annoyed or angry over it, but I don't feel threatened. Because I actually see and speak to my Gods, nothing anyone could say would shake my belief in them. It would be like if someone said my son didn't exist, I couldn't stop believing in him because I carried him in my womb, gave birth to him, held him, and right now he's playing with my foot. It's just the same to me, my Gods and the spiritual world I believe in are just that real to me. So no one can threaten that belief, though Christians specifically have tried my entire life. *shrugs* I wouldn't kill them over it, though I have hit a couple who physically harmed me first over the issue. I only fight in protection of myself or others though, so you could bash my beliefs all day long and as long as it's only verbal (or written in this case), I'll likely either laugh at you or walk away.
In my case, the harm from my childhood is what led me to my beliefs. Since I had a bad childhood, I needed strength to endure. My Goddess offered that. I needed to know why my life was so horrible, and my Goddess told me things I would need to do later that I would need the strength I was gaining now for. And those things happened, and I did protect others as I was meant to when the time came. I'm still doing that. The number of people I have given advice to, offered physical help to, pointed in the right direction to get help, or even actually physically protected has become larger than I can even comprehend. So my beliefs and the information my Goddess gave me is what made me survive, and my survival has had a very important purpose.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
4 Dec 07
For me religion is only part of your identity. There is so much more to a person than just there relegion. Everyone has there own personality which is part of them, there job is part of there identity, and place in there family is part of there identity.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I dont think my religious/spiritual beliefs give me my identity at all...I could follow no religion or spiritual path and still be the person I am...I do feel that our choice can enhance who we are but at the same time, for some ppl (fundies for example) it TAKES AWAY from a person...Overall though, no I dont feel our religious/spiritual choices define us..
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
2 Dec 07
Well, I hope that my identity goes beyond my religious beliefs considering I do not hold any! Otherwise, I guess I wouldn't have much of an identity at all, or worse only be defined by my non-belief. I do not feel like it has anything to do with who I am as a person, or at least it doesn't have much to do with it. Religion isn't something I give much thought to.






