Babies and immusiation I agree with it but some nurses seem so cruel

@garnet80 (349)
Australia
December 2, 2007 4:48pm CST
Is it just me or do some nurses seem to be too rough with babies. My son is almost 3 and I remember like it was yesterday the sound of him crying with each of his needles. One time he had little hard lumps on his legs from the needles for months. The nurse told me this was one of the types of reactions that babies sometimes get from having their needles. Watching the nurses and from what I've heard from family and friends do you think that nurses are too rough with our children. I think they and even doctors need to slow down a little bit more when it comes to our children.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
2 Dec 07
I really believe nurses do everything they can to make immunizations as easy on the baby as possible. Needles hurt and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Nurses usually try to get them done as fast as they possibly can so the baby can be soothed sooner. I don't see anything wwrong with that. Maybe some day we will have alternative methods of delivering immunizations that will not be painful but until then I think we should just appreciate the fact that our babies are protected and that the nurses are being as compassionate as possible.
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@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
3 Dec 07
Some nurses do and there has been times when they have been gentle. He used to cry everytime which I got used to but it was the marks that were left that I hated. The lumps under the skin were like little marbles.
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• United States
3 Dec 07
Those little marbles under the skin- can sometimes happen but shouldn't every time. It's called a Hematoma- the injections may have been given to deep! In Australia- they may use a different gauge of needle on infants than we do here in the states- which could make a difference as well. Like a bump on the head- those little marbles- do take a long time to heal!
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
4 Dec 07
They did take a long time to heal and I was worried so like the overprotective Mum I am I asked the doctors about them. They said it was a reaction from the needle guess they really couldn't admit tht the injections has been given too deep. I think they said the needles they use here in Australia on children are the same as what they use on adults.
• United States
3 Dec 07
It really depens on the nurse and how qualified they are, or if they really even care at all. I have seen nurses be so rough with the little ones that they scream and cry, however when I went in with my little cousin to get her shots done when she was 6 months old (I had to take her becuase her mom couldn't get off work...) the nurse was so friendly with her and took the time to get her to giggle and laugh and played with her a little bit and then did the shot and she barley even sniffled. If your not happy with the nurse that is giving the shot, defiantely go somewhere else, becuase their are better ones out there!!
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@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
3 Dec 07
I have to agree with you there about how qualified the nurse is. I myself have had needles in the past that afterwards make you feel like you have been wrestling with a bear. Makes you wonder how they feel if we feel that bad.
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• United States
3 Dec 07
I hope you made your doctor report that reaction to the proper people!! That isn't normal- and just b/c the doctor or nurse says that it might happen doesn't make it normal! I wouldn't allow that nurse to administer any more shots to your son. I'd specifically request a compassionate person to do them and tell them why.
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
4 Dec 07
They have another nurse there now and I try to get her to look after my son now. I know when the first nurse gave me my needle it hurt. Instead of injecting it like most nurses she stabbed it into the arm. That's the worst needle I've ever had it made the tecknus shot seem mild.
2 Dec 07
I think some nurses try to get immunisations done as fast as possible so they can have a break or go on to normal appointments. Some nurses are more gentle with kids, but others just seem to not care how much they hurt the children. It also seems to depend what sort of day they've had and what they're in too. My son keeps getting put off for his 2nd immunisation for the mmr immunisation, but whenever i ask them about it they always say they are either have a shortage of them or he doesn't need it. I argue with them and they still refuse to give it him. I just wish the nurses would listen and take the childs age into consideration. ~ Joeys wife.
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@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
3 Dec 07
I know that sometimes when the child accidently moves they get hurt more and this is not the nurses fault. But yes they are too fast most of the time. Have you tried seeing another doctor who will make the time to fit a child in for their immuisation.
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@katydidmc (210)
• Canada
3 Dec 07
I took part of the nursing course years ago, when we had to practice on each other . believe me, its much less painful if the needle is jabbed in quick and hard, than if it is inserted slowly.
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
3 Dec 07
Thanks for that bit of information I always thought that it was less painful if the needle was put in slowly less pain more accurate so to speak. As they say you learn something new everyday.
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• United States
3 Dec 07
I'm a nursing student and I agree completely. Administered slowly there is a horrible burning sensation. It does seem brutal when doing it- but most infant immunizations are administered into the muscle which is hard to penetrate. But you do have to be careful because obviously infant muscles are smaller and much less dense than an adult muscle. Nurses are trained at least I currently am- when giving multiple immunizations to the child- To have another nurse come in and administer the shots at the same time- in different legs, which really really seems brutal but it is easier on the child as it goes by faster. Most intramuscular injections given to a child or adult- are done in this manner. Hey I'd rather have this than a blood draw- those hurt! :)
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
i hate that when they're rough with children... i remember my youngest sister when she was born, i saw at the nursery, how the nurse lifted my baby sister on her tiny legs and un-gently pat her cute butt as the nurse gave her a bath.... how rough could they get?!!!!! grrrr
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
4 Dec 07
That does seem a bit rough. Now a days if someone saw them do that they would be reported for child abuse wouldn't they. And they say not to stand them up when they are tiny because it can damage their little legs.