How will you choose between your husband and work?

China
December 3, 2007 9:15pm CST
If have a good working chance in front you but considering your husband you don't want to leave far away from him, how will you do?Give up the job or Catch the Job, its really difficult to solve it. Some one said: Female need give up and support husband,so does that means we need give up good chance and leave together with family? Since we are still young i think we should take work as first and catch oppetunity.
3 responses
@nkhanna (925)
• India
4 Dec 07
hi heecho.well i think it really depends upon individual as to what is their first preferance.career or family.for me my family comes first.i never considered money above love.i know opportunity knocks the door once.but still i think i would give up the job.i will rather find a job in my town only so that we together can live happily..marriage also means adjustment.if my partner can do some,then why not me?well i always believe that there is always an alternative for dilemma.
• China
5 Dec 07
Most time i agree with you, i also want to be around him, because i worried no body take care of him, wash clother for him and do supper for him, the life will be hard if a single man live by himself,, ummmm i need thinking carefully, thanks!
@mizrak07 (557)
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
I'm in that situation right now and yes it's difficult. My husband just won't let me work even if we both feel that I need to because he can't do it all on his own forever. Life's financially hard nowadays and I wish he'd let me. He's not against me working, it's me working far away from home he doesn't like. If I get the job I'll be away for six days and home only on Sundays, and I have no choice as this is the only job open for me right now. I think I'm going to stop pushing the issue, it only ends up in an argument and it's not good.
• China
5 Dec 07
Yesterday i got another chance, this job is in same city with my husband and i will have interview next week. let's wait to see it,its so difficult to decide actually~~
@enix931 (38)
• China
4 Dec 07
if i were you , i will choose work cos work is fundation of love
• China
5 Dec 07
Yes I believe work is fundation of love but if leaving too far from him we will miss each other and also if longtime it will impact the love i think.