I don't think myLot is what it used to be.

United States
December 4, 2007 1:40pm CST
Am I wrong? I think we have lost a lot of good people. I haven't been around for a while and I come back and I still see a few familiar faces, but there are a lot of people "missing". What happened? Does anyone know?
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
5 Dec 07
No, you're not wrong. There are a lot or people who have left, but from time to time you find some old friends just drop in, and this is good. I'm one of those who don't log on for a time,but do come back. There are some contributors whose input I miss also.
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• United States
6 Dec 07
Well, I'm glad your back and I hope you stick around. I remember you. I left for a long time also. But now I'm back and I try to check in atleast once a day while my little terror is sleeping! Lol. Happy Holidays!
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
6 Dec 07
Thank you for your kind remarks. I do find myLot interesting when I need an opinion, or some experienced advice.
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
4 Dec 07
Youa re right, i am not sayign the mylot is not what it used to be, but you are right about that a lot of people get somewhere else. they probably find other site where to post and also i know many people went to yuwie. Also mylot earning is still lower and lower,, so i think that migth be reason why so many people left, even if many are sayign they are not here for money, btu just for socializing.
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• United States
6 Dec 07
Yuwie? I haven't heard of that. I didn't know mylot lowered their pay either. When did that happen and how much did it go down? I came back for my friends really. The money was never too good to begin with, but I've made some really good friends on here. I hope everyone I love sticks around. Thank you for responding. I hope you have a great day!
@laurika (4532)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Youa re right it is not so much money here, but i see a lot of stay at home mums and so and they are probably trying to make some penny. Don't you have a personl mail for friends? Mayeb you cna ask them, where they went.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I think some have just lost interest. The pay is a little less and takes longer to reach payout. Some have had altercations with others and just left. There are alot of new people that are very nice. Some have just found other things to do. Hope you stick around, too.
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• United States
6 Dec 07
Hi! I'm so glad to see you. I remember you. How have you been? I hope you stick around and look forward to answering some of your posts. Take care!
• United States
5 Dec 07
Girlfriends - Old and New Friends - All there for a reason
Stephanie, I think some come for a reason and some a season. When I first came it was for the "big bucks" that I was going to earn. Guess what? I didn't earn big bucks, but I started forming friendships. That is why I stayed. You are much younger than I, but most of the friends that I have sort of fit into one of my main "interest" categories - either pagan, cooking/baking, work from home, or disabled. As for you, your peers would be more people that probably are in the work force and for some reason were off for a period of time (perhaps a birth), and then had to return to their job. When I find that a lot of my "old" friends have not been posting for quite awhile, I go to my friends list, check out how long it has been since they have visited MyLot and if it is 6 months or longer I delete them. My next step is to go to "hot topics" and "new user discussions" and make new friends there. I am so happy to be your new friend.~Donna
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• United States
6 Dec 07
I know what you are saying. I think I remember you from last time I was here. When and why did the pay change and what did it change to? I don't think I ever got an email. I'm so glad that you are my friend too and I'm looking forward to seeing some of your posts. Take care and Happy Holidays.
• Singapore
5 Dec 07
Oh yea? Oh yea. The earnings are really low nowadays so many have migrated or just lost interest. Stay cool lol.:P
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• United States
6 Dec 07
lord~ You are so funny sometimes! It's good to see that you are still here. Please don't leave us! I'm cool, you stay cool too! :-P ~Stephanie
@chrislotz (8136)
• Canada
5 Dec 07
I am a newbie here but I have read a lot of discussions just like this one. I guess it's like anything else, the novelty wears off. Or maybe mylot is getting cheaper in paying, as I read. Or maybe they are deleting a lot of discussions so people are getting fed up, I've read. Or maybe people are getting nasty, as anyone can sign up, I've read. Or maybe people are marking others with a lot of negatives, this is happening to me. I have gone from a 10 with a 99/100 to a 9 with a 89/100 and I don't know why, other than I have maybe insulted someone, not intentionaly, and that person is going around a marking my discussions and responses with a negative, to get back at me. This might be the reason I would leave mylot. I signed up to make some friends and have fun, but it isn't so much fun when people get nasty.
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• United States
6 Dec 07
I know, I've had some people do that to me too. Don't get discouraged and leave us though. We need all the good people we can get! It's nice to meet you and I look forward to answering your posts. Take care and Happy Holidays! ~Stephanie
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
4 Dec 07
It just seems like everybody left at once and also that there aren't too many interesting discussions going on. Interesting to me. It has taken me over 4 months to make payout and I still haven't done it. Not that the money matters, it is just to make a point. I can't find anything to discuss and they seem to be paying less than before. Also, I am recently addicted to Webkinz!
• United States
6 Dec 07
I haven't heard of Webkinz either. Is it the same as here? I have noticed that there isn't alot of interesting discussions on here. I usually answer the same "group" of people's posts. I don't do it on purpose, just happens that way. I have noticed that there are alot of short meaningless discussions on here, more than before, I think. Oh well....I hope you stick around. Take care! Happy Holidays.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
4 Dec 07
I've been here almost 10 months so I'm not exactly an "old" member but have been here for quite awhile. Some of the "old" members just left as happens in forums...life happens and they move on to other things. Some left because of some problems with deletions and "negative raters", others were banned...some justly some not.
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• United States
6 Dec 07
I had some problems with some "negative raters" also. I've been stuck on 9 forever and I used to be a 10. I think I got as low as a 7. Well, I hope that you stick around. I think we have a lot in common with the kids and all. Take care and Happy Holidays.