what is your relation with your boyfriend/girlfriend

Pakistan
December 5, 2007 1:39am CST
do you spend your night with your boyfriend or girlfriend.do you think that its good for teenagers that they spend the whole night with his friend what was your experiance first time when you spend your night
5 responses
@dreamy1 (3815)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I don't think any teenager needs to be spending the night with a boyfriend or girlfriend until they are 18 and grown. I certainly wouldn't let my teen under 18 spend the night with a boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm grown and I live with my boyfriend. The first time I spent the night with a boyfriend was when I was 20, closer to 21.
• United States
5 Dec 07
Could I ask why you think they have no right spending the night together?
@dreamy1 (3815)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Life is not fair. My house my rules. When you pay the bills I'm sure you get to decide how things go in your house.
• Philippines
30 Dec 07
I think it is not appropriate to do such kind of act. In a relationship, there is always a limitation. We should always consider the right thing. :-)
@nkhanna (925)
• India
6 Dec 07
well i am married now and i am living with my hubby.i had 2years of affair with him before i got married.however i never spent a night with him before marriage.its not at all allowed in our customs and its considred to be characterless thing.however nowaday teenagers are spending nights with their boyfriends or girlfriends.and since we know that all can happen i think its not feasible to let them do so till the age of 18.
• Saint Lucia
5 Dec 07
i've spent the night with my girlfriend but we've never slept together. you should know your limits dude before you go doing some crazy stuff. give your girl some space.
• United States
5 Dec 07
well, i'm nineteen..so i'm technically still a teenager for another couple of months and i live with my boyfriend. although, i'm sure you're talking about younger teenagers, specifically those who don't live with their boyfriend. haha. i think it can be ohkay, although i'm sure that most of the time the nights aren't innocent. the first time i ever stayed overnight at my boyfriend's was when i was seventeen and it was the night of his nineteenth birthday party.