She is very wild, should i go further with her?!

the naughty girl - naughty
@YazEid (1139)
Philippines
December 5, 2007 10:20am CST
I know a girl who looks so attractive and i really like her But she is so wild and naughty even when she was in a relationship she always liked to look for other guys .. now we are becoming closer and closer to each other but i don't know .. should i ge further with her or shouldn't I?!?! would it be easy to stop now than stopping later?!?
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@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
5 Dec 07
Run far, far away! If you are even asking this question you know the answer. You just want to hear people tell you that you are right. Seriously, unless you are looking for a broken heart or to just have a little fun yourself you should let this girl go. It is much easier to walk away at this stage of the game than to have to deal with a relationship that you have put your heart and soul into being broken.
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• China
9 Dec 07
i think so, too. you shoud clern that your futuer realation is not a jok. before you fall into it,you shoud know what your ider is . the love is not a game.
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• United States
13 Dec 07
I agree that love is not a game. It is definitely not worth being with a person that you know is going to hurt you in the long run. Unfortunately this girl has probably missed out on being with a great person because she is so wild. That is sad for her.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
14 Dec 07
Thank you very much .. I think that I will let her go .. maybe my future isn't with her , and if it's is written to us to be together disteny will make us meet again
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@shinnis (55)
• China
6 Dec 07
i think she are not in the mood to marry someone . You look for a wife but she just need a boy friend. In the second hand , in our girls pyschology, you are not her type . For some example , you can not meet her requirements totally , like you are not rich enough , it is not funning enough with you , or she just think maybe someday her prince will appear, at that time she will dumpt you and trace her Mr charming . If this was the fact , you can choose not to let this happen . You should use the time to make up for something .Let her believe you and she 's future is so bright and you are a worthy people to love . Step by step, maybe you will melt her aromous heart. Good luck , my friend!
@amitavroy (4819)
• India
5 Dec 07
well i think you already know the answer. if she wanty that thing only then she will be bored from you after some days and then you will land up in a mess. so i think it is better to avoid such relation ship. just dont press the serious button on such girls. they come close quickly and go away faster than that.
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
7 Dec 07
You might be true ... it is just an inner feelings that need to be assured
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@scapula (760)
• Jordan
5 Dec 07
It seems you like here .. but you don't like specific features of here ... you should know if these are adjustable or not ... so you can go further or not ... but first be sure that you are certin of what you want ... I mean don't go further if you aren't sure of your feelings. Love is greater than our imagination ... it should fit all situations to be true and to have the ability to continue forever.
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
7 Dec 07
Maybe you r talking abiut sth else .. i don't know if i like her or not espicially that she is not around now , she is outside the country and she will be back soon ... but am not sure of what shall i do
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• United States
5 Dec 07
If she runs around on guys she is with, she will run around on you too. There may be part of you that "wants to change her" or think that you are different and your love will transform her, but the older I get, I have noticed that many people stay the same. It is okay to be friends, but I would keep my standards high if I were you. People say that to women all the time to keep your standards high and don't date jerks, but I think the same goes for men too. If you are looking for a meaningful relationship, the likelihood of finding one with her is against the odds. I am not saying we are all doomed or she is damaged. But right now in her life, she doesn't seem to be settling down any time soon. One may say "she just wasn't with the right guy." But a woman of character who is with someone they don't want to be with/its not working out end their bad relationship before playing the field again. They don't "play the field" while they are in a relationship to test the waters to see if they should cheat or dump or continue.
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• United States
5 Dec 07
I guess it depends on what you mean by going further? Being friends with a person like that could be hard but may be a meaningful relationship.
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
7 Dec 07
i mean by going further to be Bf and GF ... what do you think about that ?!
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• United States
8 Dec 07
I believe it is up to you. If you want to take the chance go for it and dont worry about what others think. I used to be like this girl that you are talking about. My husband gave me a chance and now 7 years later we have 2 kids and are very happy!!
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@missybal (4490)
• United States
5 Dec 07
If she isn't willing to change her ways I would leave now. Not saying she may not like to change but you shouldn't let her stomp on your heart. If you care a great deal for her and want to give it a shot... and you do and she cheats on you once... you should get out right away. It would be easier to stop now then it would before you end up caring for her more. It's really all up to you wheather or not you think your love is enough to tame her.
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• Philippines
6 Dec 07
gosh it's your call. you know, you better save yourself from that kind of girl. she may well be your undoing. walking headaches like those may be pretty, but they're seriously heavy emotional baggage!
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
7 Dec 07
That's what am thinking of also ..
@ruknaa (407)
• India
6 Dec 07
tempting... just like the forbidden fruit
@ruknaa (407)
• India
9 Dec 07
so wha ru u doing about her?
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
7 Dec 07
yeah ,, so sweet when it is forbidden
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
9 Dec 07
yes IF you are really game to gamble with this kind of woman. I mean you already know that she is the type that do not take relationship seriously. There is a great possibility that you will be hurt. I am not saying that she will not change... somewhere along the way, he will meet someone who will change her... who knows it might be you... but as I was saying... its really risky to go further with her. You must prepare yourself and show her that you do not deserve such treatment. I guess if you really want to pursue it, you must observe her and talk to her directly about that. If she will say taht she cant promise... then you know that you must turn your back.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
10 Dec 07
Maybe .. I should try doing this ... thnak you
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
5 Dec 07
It depends on what kind of relationship that you want. If you're just looking for a f__k buddy then she's perfect! But if you want a serious relationship, I think you'll only get heartbroken with this girl. I can't imagine sharing my girlfriend with other guys! Ouch!
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@micamyx (916)
• Philippines
5 Dec 07
It's up to you, but my advise is that you must not take this thing seriously. For sure this is just a fling
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• New Zealand
6 Dec 07
Well I guess you have to stop seeing her as early as possible. Don't get yourself be fallen for her if in the first place you really knows her attitude. You might get hurt in the future if you will still continue having a relationship with her. I know that there is still some ladies there that are more worth it and right girl for you...=)
• United States
5 Dec 07
well, i wouldn't recommend going after a relationship with her if you know that with past boyfriends she's been on the look out for new ones. that's just not right. she shouldn't be interested in finding a new partner while she's still in a relationship with someone. people like this usually repeat their relationship patterns too. good luck with whatever happens though.
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@tatzkie (644)
• Philippines
6 Dec 07
well as long as you already know what youre going into just proceed. go with the flow. who knows you can have her. however dont expect much of faithfulness. just enjoy.
@Blue911 (49)
• China
6 Dec 07
Seems that you do not like she was in a relationship she always liked to look for other guys.So you think should you go futher with her.If you feel you can really do not care this any more then you can try go futher,if you want to try let that girl changed I remberd my mother told me you at least should give 10 times love than that people you want to changed
• India
6 Dec 07
Actually, u should be very careful to this girl.u don't fully believe her as u told she might leave u also.