Why A Man gets 'Scared Away' When You Try to get Him To Commit For the Long-Term

my doc - love at first sight
Philippines
December 6, 2007 2:26am CST
Have you ever met a man who seemed to be "Mr. Right, but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt? You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him? In your mind, you could sense what a great man he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong feeling of emotions that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you. You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you. And the worst part you kept thinking of him.
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
6 Dec 07
There are different types of men, some were really borne commitment-phobic, some are just mere players some are scared to be hurt because maybe they have been hurt so many times and now there are the serious ones - the one who is ready to propose and deal with the consequences of commitment. Sometimes we land on men who are not our type, men who are reading from a different page than us. The question i could ask now is this: Why do we keep on attracting the wrong men? And why are the wrong men attracting the right women?