friend's boyfriend

what goes around comes around - very good saying and true one
@lorelai (1558)
Italy
December 6, 2007 2:42pm CST
I have met a girl about 2 months ago and we became friends. She has just moved here and didn't know much people. But she works at one place where she got to know a lot of people and some of them are young too. Anyway, it was difficult period for her and she needed someone, like a boyfrined she could talk to. She rented a room in a house with 2 other women and at the end she didn't like them because they were older then her and behave as if they were her mother or something. So the time she was spending with this boy was like taken a break from all that. Now she has moved to another apartment where she leaves alone. The apartment is really wonderful. I went to visit her today. We were talking and she told me that she doesn't like this boy, I mean she likes him but doesn't feel anything about him and that if she finds someone better she'd go with him. She said that he felt the same. I don't know. Usually, in that kind of relationship one always feels something for the other and he if it's not her then it must be him. I was there for about an hour when he arrived. They were behaving as they weren't together, as they were just friends. Anyway, this guy, this so called NOT BOYFRIEND is gorgeous! He looks wonderful and he is also very lovable and funny...I mean the kind of guy most of the girls would want to have. I don't know why she doesn't like him...she said there's no that special feeling between them. I wanted to tell her that she was crazy because he is really such a great guy but I knew she knew that. She asked me what should she do and I said I thought that was her decision. But what I really wanted to say was: If you don't love him then leave him alone because there's a bunch of girls who would adore him. I mean I know she is not happy because of this but I think that she doesn't understand that she is playing with his feelings. Maybe he feels the same she does...it's just a flirt until I find someone better...but I don't think so.
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• United States
9 Dec 07
Are you friends with him too? If so, I would tell him how your friend really feels, unless she told you to keep it secret.That way he will know and if he is really serious about her, he can try to move on.I wonder why she isn't interested in him?
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@lorelai (1558)
• Italy
9 Dec 07
No I am not his friend, I met him that day when I wrote my post. She doesn't like him mostly because he is 3 years younger then her and she wants her man to be older then her. I knowit sounds stupid but sometimes we concentrate on something so much that we just don't see anything else.
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• United States
10 Dec 07
Oh well there isn't that much you can do.
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@lorelai (1558)
• Italy
10 Dec 07
Thanks for your support
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