Are you jealous?

@megumiart (3771)
United States
December 8, 2007 1:10am CST
Do you get jealous if your ex gets with another person? I don't get jealous if I was the one that broke up with my partner, but if it were vice versa I might get envious. :P
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14 responses
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
8 Dec 07
....actually,i'm jealous if i can't move on......if that girl.....i'm still love her.....but if i forgot the feeling that girl,i never jealous....now,i have a girlfriend and i'm serious if what i feelings to my girl friend.....for that reason i'm jealous because all ex of my girlfriend is friends...i don't know why,all ex of my girl is friends?!
• United States
8 Dec 07
Haha mabey next time you should make sure there is no friendship between them,because even if not with you that could still cause problems between the friends,
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
9 Dec 07
...he he....its hurt you know....yeah..its problems to me....i love her for that reason i can't give up to my girlfriend....:)
• United States
2 Jan 08
I really don't know how i would act or feel cuz i've had one boyfriend in like 9th grade and i broke up with him and laughed in his face and then I have my boyfriend who i'm with know and we've been together for 3yrs. I dont see my self getting jealous i would see my self getting mad about it only cuz we have a baby together.
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
9 Dec 07
Yes, I'll admit that I do. It doesn't matter who broke up with who for me either, it still bothers me. Not too bad though. But it does irk me a little bit. I especially get angry when they get with someone I was friends with, which recently happened but oh well, I doubt they will put up with him for very long and she will get what she has coming to her, because what comes around, goes around.
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
2 Jan 08
No, I don't. Past is past. She have a new life and free. She deserve to have a new love. And you have also deserve to a new love. If you having a jealous, it means you still love that person and why you let them far away from you. If you love that person don't get him/her away from you and show your love to him/her.
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
No way, we brokeup remember...
@jazzygunz (178)
• United States
10 Dec 07
I will admit. I am a jealous person on certain things and this is definetly one of them. I fI am not happpy I dont like anyone else to be. It is just the way I am. I kinda want to see my ex suffer and miss me for some time but, I dont want him to just totally rebound and move along. But I guess that s just me in my sick mind :)
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
8 Dec 07
oooppps...i misunderstood the title when i first opened your discussion...although i haven't experience such predicament, but i think it is logical to be jealous when the person you love has dumped you and you see him/her with another person. i think it is just a human emotion. :-) but yeah, if you did the dumping, then probably you will be relieved that at least you got that person out of the way. however, i watch in the movies that some people only realize how much they care for people when they are already gone and with somebody else. hehe i dunno, i guess it is a different emotion with different people.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
8 Dec 07
I was jealous in the beginning, when we had just broken up. But after a while I had gotten over it and now I want her to be happy, as I am happy.
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
9 Dec 07
when I decide I love somebody even just the thought that somebody else might be lusting after her too makes me jealous I guess I just haven't had enough success with women in life
@fazelath (1174)
• India
8 Dec 07
if i find someone better than the ex,i dont think i will be jealous,may yes if i am single,
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
8 Dec 07
I do not get jealous. In fact, I'll feel sorry for the new girl. Knowing the character of my ex, I do not think he will treat the new girl well. But well, I will wish them all the best and pray for him to treat her well. It's enough for him to hurt me, I hope he will not hurt another girl in the future. Since what's done cannot be undone and a broken relationship cannot be mend anymore, I will definitely give them my blessings. =D
• India
9 Dec 07
no i dont get jealous bcoz its natural there is no1 in this world who is only surrounded b y his or her partner
• United States
8 Dec 07
Well wither you admot it or not,you never get jelous unless you are truely over that person..if you are then there would b nothing there no feelings but mabey being happy that he is with someone and happy for the time being:)
• United States
8 Dec 07
I personally, don't get jealous...my break ups are usually for a good reason, and I end up hating the person, so I usually find it funny that they're off, annoying someone else. And half the time, I wouldn't even know anyway, cuz I really don't keep tabs on them. I probably would, though, like you said, if I was the one who was dumped, instead of the other way around...that's a little bit rougher to deal with! Maybe we should get my boyfriend's ex-wife in on this discussion, so she could lie to all of us and say she's not jealous! She is insane. I hate her.