Am I Crazy?!?
December 8, 2007 2:16am CST
I've posted about this subject before, and have gotten a lot of really good responses, and now that I have a few guys who I've added as friends on here, i hope I can get their points of view, too! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now, and I absolutely cannot stand his ex-wife. She's a total freak, and if you didn't read my last post about this, to put it in a nutshell, aside from the fact that she's crazy, she's constantly asking him to pay her bills (which he doesn't do anymore since he helped her out with a $140 phone bill, then found out she'd just bought an mp3 player, plasma tv, new cell phones, and a treadmill!), and asks for the child support checks early, asks him to make the daycare checks out to her instead of the daycare...all kinds of crazy crap. Anyway, she recently broke up with the guy she was dating since like, literally 27 seconds after she and my bf divorced...and this new guy moved in with her and my bf's daughter, and his ex didn't feel the need to tell him this, even though legally, she has to...but anyway, they broke up, and he messages me on myspace. At first I thought it was an accident and he didn't know who I was, but then I ended up answering him, just asking him how he was doing since the split. Blah blah blah, we talked for a bit that day, and once more after that for about ten minutes, and that was that. He was really creepy, asking me to hang out and telling me all kinds of gossip about my bf's ex, and why they broke up, and then trying to talk sh*t about my bf, so I ended up telling my bf about it and sending him the conversations. Well, after all the bs was cleared up, we laughed about it. The next day, I'm on MSN and I totally get tag-teamed by my bf's ex and her ex, both of them screaming at me, f'in this and f'in that, calling me a liar, and her ex was saying that I was flirting with him and asked HIM out LOL To try and make this even shorter, I finally just signed out after 45 minutes of abuse, and told my bf, who immediately corrected his rather hefty ex-wife (unless you don't consider 345 pounds at 5 feet tall hefty)...but then the next day I start getting myspace messages from her friends! They were yelling at me too, so I had to get my poor bf involved AGAIN! I feel like I'm in high school, and unfortunately, my bf OBVIOUSLY isn't doing enough to stop this. Am I wrong for staying with him, hoping she'll finally get the message and fall off the Earth? Or are things only gonna get worse unless him and I do something drastic? Thanks for listening...I'll appreciate any good advice!!