Jealousy~ that green eyed monster

@mrsjbelle (1640)
United States
December 8, 2007 7:50pm CST
How much is to much? Do you trust your bf/ g/f, spouse? I am the jealous type I do trust my man but there are so many women out there who don't care if a man is attached twho throw themselves at him and other men & yet I'm the one who has self esteem issues?
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
9 Dec 07
Yes I trust him... but I dont trust the women around him...lols! Well, although I trust my partner...still I am a jealous type of person and so is he... so we decided to avoid hurting each other, we just avoid the ex-partners in life. We have good friend but we are the best of friends. We usually go out with them together.
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• United States
9 Dec 07
I think too much would be if your evading their privacy or checking up on them because your so jealous. I trust my husband 100%. And your right there are a lot of people who dont care if someone else is attached. But we have to remember that not just one person is at fault in situations like this.
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@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
9 Dec 07
I am the same way. I trust my husband. I don't believe he would ever cheat on me. Every year he goes "back home" for a little vacation. He performs when he is down there (step-dancing) and drinks and I know the girls love it when he dances (I do!) Every time he goes away I ask him beforehand what he would do if someone threw themselves at him and he always says he is not the least bit interested, he is married to me. But my husband was a real player before he settled down and married me so that still niggles at the back of my mind. I can't help it. It is definitely my own insecurities at play.
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@lucgeta (924)
• France
9 Dec 07
Of course I'm jealous of my girlfriend, you just have to trust and live with it. What I try to do is be the best at all times for her. Be her friend, listening partner or whatever she needs. And there is many men out there doing anything to get a girl like her at least once.
@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
9 Dec 07
Thank you guys! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one with these feelings.
@tiffiny (872)
• United States
9 Dec 07
I will be honest I HATE it when my husband is on the computer and I don't know what he's doing. I always know what he's doing on the computer and who he's talking to. And if I don't I check the history and I find out. It's crazy. I'm trying to work on it but he knew I was the jelous type before we got together. So yeah...I am trying to fix that but still it's hard.
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