What do you think of extramarital affairs?

United States
August 14, 2006 9:49am CST
I was wondering what everyone's ideas of an affair are? What if the circumstances in your marriage gave you reason? What if it just fell in your lap and you had no intentions of being involved with anyone else? What are your reasons, circumstances, ideas and feelings?
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56 responses
@kahheng (281)
17 Dec 06
Extramarital affair is never good news. It spells destruction of a trust between two loving sould (or used to be loving) and this trust would be hard to rebuild again. It would be a big NO NO to mr.. but then again, I am only human, if I ever come to that junction in life, I would know if I am strong enough.. I sincerely hope I am...
@kahheng (281)
17 Dec 06
my humble apologees for the double post. I do not know how that came about.. :\
@sukughost (109)
• India
5 Oct 06
ITS NOT COOL . COME ON STOP CHEATING
• United States
27 Nov 06
Why bother being together-cheating is just a bad idea. Be friends and date other people if committment is not possible
@ainpat (279)
9 Jan 07
Just ignore just immoral foolishness.
• United States
8 Jan 07
they are disgusting
@tildy12 (760)
• United States
9 Jan 07
I dont believe in adultery .If a person is not happy with their spouse they should let them know so that he or she could fix whatever is wrong .
@monu123 (297)
• India
9 Jan 07
i dnt think nythin for extramarital affairs
@shaggydog (647)
• Canada
7 Jan 07
to each their own, there is so much of it going around sometimes i wonder why people even bother to get married but in my case it is different we communicate very well and we talk everything out, it works
@zotopec (307)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
Extramarital affairs do exist and they are necessary, at least for men. But they are subject to a valid reason. If you feel that no matter what you do to have your desired results with your spouse, you still feel dejected and disappointed with her, and a very pleasant person is nearing you and passing you green signals, you are apt and I think justified to tie with her.
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Bad! Extramaritals are often displays of immaturity, irresponsibility, insecurity. No circumstance in any marriage should provide an excuse for extramaritals, even if partner is messing around - amend or get out of the relationship.
@uskolabu (37)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Not good because it hurt the other partner if findout. Thought circumstance may cause it, say if you meet old friend. Tell the truth and forget the past. Be born again.
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I would never have an affair, there is no reason to. When you marry, your supposed to marry for a lifetime. Even if my partner was paralized and couldn't perform, I would not cheat.
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
6 Jan 07
I'm not married so any affair is fair for me now :) I wouldn't involve myself with a married woman though. I think there are no excuses for cheating, if someone is not happy with his suppose they should try to fix things and if all fails they should just walk out and start a new honest relationship.
6 Jan 07
Extra marital affairs spells the end of two lives living in blissful harmony. Having an affair with a married man is more disastrous then having an affair with a bachelor. We should attempt neither of these feats. Besides having an affair with a married man is like taking the curse of breaking up a marriage, breaking up the love, the bond, the trust between a man and a woman. It also leads to breaking up of the children's hearts the most. So if you feel that after all this curse you could still march along successfully then go for it.
• India
7 Jan 07
I have being married for 7 years it is love marriage but sometimes my husband being so stubborn i feel like getting involved with other but tried out but at the end what the outcome was my consience did not allow me i thought why should i do that my soul is not ready for. Am i trying to harm him or myself.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
5 Jan 07
the basic thing is if you dont want to no body can involve you in extra marital afffairs It is the lack of willpower whcich leads to such thing and one looks for lame excuses to cover up
@gaganlok (587)
• India
30 Dec 06
I think everybody wants these types of affairs after there is no love in their marriage.
@tsuresh01 (821)
• India
17 Dec 06
i think that is very very bad on our part.. and we should be tempted to get into the extramarital affairs.. and we should get those feelings before the marriage.. and i dont like too...
@adnan82 (672)
• Pakistan
17 Dec 06
any thing has a reason . .so extramarital affar has also been done with a reason....no One can say i m doing it wihout ne reason .for Fun :)..WAt do ya think..he can say .that........so i will not react in an aggressive manner if this think happen against me.. 1st of all we have to find out. wat is the reason behind.. it.
@jal1948 (1359)
• India
31 Dec 06
if a female fell into my lap maybe i would feel great let her lie there and just enjoy the feeling ,happy new year
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
17 Dec 06
nope no way no how. I was in an abusive relationship and met lots of single eligible males in the town I lived but I am a firm believer end one totally before starting another