regrets

United States
December 11, 2007 2:08pm CST
do you have any regrets? what are they? did you learn from it? I dont really have any regrets forsay but life experiances that i learned from oh yea i have done lots of things that i shouldnt of done but i am a person that believes in meant to bes and that everything happens for a reason and those mistakes i made in life were supposed to happen so i can learn what i need to learn in this lifetime what do you think about this
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• India
11 Dec 07
yea thats nice saying!!we have to learned from the things we have done mistake!! I have a big regret !! when i was 8th standard i made a big mistake which led to the termination of me from the school!! Now thinking if would have been continue in that school ,i could be a doctor now not the engineer!! as our place Doctor is more preferred !!:) many i did but this was the biggest of all!! later i learned something so i could become engineer atleast!!
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• United States
11 Dec 07
yes i understand that i didnt get kicked out of school but quit and sometimes i wonder where i would be today if i went through with school and then on to college. but i wouldnt of meet my fiance if that happened and other things wouldnt of happened in my life if i didnt make the mistake of quitting school
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• India
11 Dec 07
Really sometimes good thing can also be come out our blunder !!hehehe!! If we are good everytime life is not excitement !! only advanturious can bring new face in our life!!
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• United States
11 Dec 07
yes very true
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• United States
12 Feb 08
Sure I have regrets. I have done many things I would take back in a heart beat. I have tried to make amends with those that I could But now I believe in karma. So its real hard for me to swallow that when we make a blunder we were suppose to make it. That theory sure shots big holes in the wisdom of choice does it not? Let s take an example of a drunk driver that kills a person. Was that indeed suppose to happen? Did he not have a choice to get behind that wheel? Did he not have a choice when he began drinking? If it was suppose to happen how could we punish him and fault him. No we have choices every day. We can choose to make the mistake or reason out the right way to handle the situation. We choose. But my new friend that is my opinion :)) and I respect yours. Yes I have regrets.
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• United States
12 Feb 08
yes we have choices but i still think those choices still lead to meant to bes, i mean why do children die from a bus falling off a bridge, or in shoot outs. I think its a lesson needed to be learned by someone that it influences or the person themselves, if you believe in reincarnation and that we go closer to full enlightnement or something maybe it was a lesson for that person to reach enlightenment. I dont know most of my thoughts are just thought subject to change when as I learn LOL.
• United States
12 Feb 08
let me add i like to think of my mistakes in life as more of experiances that I needed to learn to make me the person I am today. yes some things can be cruel but isnt it natural for cruel things to happen to good people. I dont know
@Fiskis (168)
• Canada
11 Dec 07
I do regret treating my wife in a bad way when I was younger. I am happy to say that I do treat her like a queen now.
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• United States
11 Dec 07
good for you my fiance treated me like crap when we first got together and now hes better doesnt down me anymore i guess i would say that he does treat me like a queen too. you must love her alot and she must love you alot to put up with the sh*t you gave her in the begining. I would sorta know (b/c i dont know how you treated her exactley) but I love my fiance or i would of droped his a** along time ago
@dstrent (112)
• United States
12 Feb 08
I believe that we all have regrets. I have quite a few and most of them come from over seas. I will not tell about them though. I also regret not knowing my grandfathers even better than I did before they passed away.
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• United States
12 Feb 08
I know what you mean buy this but it is best to just live life and learn from your regrets and evolve yourself into a better person.
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
12 Feb 08
I do have regrets, but not the ones that made me smile, because at that time it was exactly what I wanted ; )
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• United States
12 Feb 08
yea