Liking... Now what?

Australia
December 12, 2007 6:57pm CST
OK, I have a little bit of a dilemma, being hugely unexperienced in this area... I like a guy and he has no idea... Do I tell him or wait and see what happens? I'm not sure if he's taken at the moment, but I plan on finding that out before either of the above things happens. Any advice would be appreciated please. I am so out of my depth... Dana
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Dec 07
Ok thats easy. Do you know any of his friends? ASk one of them to tell him that you have the Hotts for him.If you can get someone to do this for you, you have it made in the shade.
• Australia
13 Dec 07
lol that's the easy way out... And I've done it a few times before too *she says guiltily* It might come down to that again if I chicken though... Thanks for commenting :)
• China
13 Dec 07
Hi Dana, I think you should tell him, if you do not tell him, he will never know your feeling, and maybe he also likes you and also hesitate whether he should express his love to you or not. Once you tell him, all the things will be clear.If he also likes you, that's great,if not,he already knew your feeling and have a will to establish relationship with you, then both of you can effort for the same aim.If you are so shame to tell him directly, you can request your friend to help you. ^^Good luck!!
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• Australia
13 Dec 07
Thanks for your advice :) You made a good point there. I think I'll probably will tell him in time...
@Claidissa (108)
• United States
13 Dec 07
It can be a pretty scary thing to tell someone you like that you are interested in them, when you don't know what their reaction will be. My best advice to you would just to be honest, take a moment to get up the courage and just explain to him how you feel, ask him to meet you for coffee or go to a movie/dinner. Make sure you figure out if he is taken or not first though, and if he is, I would suggest to wait for him. You don't want to come between a current relationship at all. Best of luck to you! =) Once you tell him though, you'll feel a lot better, trust me =)
• Australia
13 Dec 07
Yah scary is the word... There's also an added complication since he lives about 3 hours away from me. Could be worse though, location wise. I'll just see what happens. Everything gets put on hold if he's already with someone though... Thanks for your response :)
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