what would u do on your first date

United States
December 12, 2007 8:21pm CST
i am about to have my first real date with someone i like very much what are the boundaries on a first date just a kiss handholding i dont want him to think i am easy but i would like to be a little intimate what are the rules
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Dec 07
There are No rules! Everybody is different! Let him choose the amount of Intimacy, and if he begins to push the envelope you can always say,"No!" Also it depends on your age. If you are over 20 you are considered an Adult, and you should be able to do whatever pleases. If you are between 14 and 18 its probably better to get to know him before you get too intimate.
• United States
13 Dec 07
lol you completely contradicted yourself. "there are no rules" and then you go to say "if you are over 20 you are considered an adult and you should do whatever pleases" Thats some lame advice hun... seriously.. don't bother posting if you have nothing decent to say. Also, where is the over 20 you are considered an adult thing coming from? In the united states you are a legal adult at the age of 18, but that has nothing to do with what you should and should not do when you're dating. It all depends on the situation, your morals and your feelings.
@Claidissa (108)
• United States
13 Dec 07
first dates are a great way to get to know each other. If you just recently met this person, play it by ear and look for signs that hes really interested in you. You might want to wait for him to make a move, just be friendly, talkative and calm. If things hit off great, then you'll know what to do. If your date went well, give him a kiss on the cheek, maybe he'll take that chance to give you more. Just play it by ear and see what happens! Heres a great article to help you www.helium.com/tm/680580/first-dates-nerve-wrecking Best of luck and just remember to be calm and be yourself!=)
• United States
13 Dec 07
thank u and i will definitely check out that website. he has already kissed me on the cheek but no more than that he calls from time to time when i talk to him next time i will tell him about my feelings
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