Love each other very much!

really? do you love your husband yet? it is a complicated question.honestly as a man,I sympathize your husband. now there are three choices in front of you. one is keep on the condition.just wait.go on your life and go on your work the second divorce with your husband and marry with the man. finally carry on a clandestine love affair with the man and hidden your husband and kid. it is too hard to choose.whick way do you choose?

You should discuss it with your lover! If he loves you so much, I think he will divorce , if he don't , it stands for that you are not on the top position in his heart! If he do the second , then , i think, you should leave away!

I don't understand. The man's still married to his wife and has a kid? If both of you love each other, then why doesn't he divorce his wife and marry you?

your life sounds confusing. who do you actually love? your life sounds like the game sims. They get different relationships while the other isn't around. Secrets have a way of catching up with us all. I hope you get untangled in the mess and figure out who you truely love. otherwise you'll be misserable and the others will to. Does your daughter know? if not she will find out one day and thats not a good thing.

I don't think it is wise for me to advice you to continue loving this married man. The only thing I could request you to do is, find out if this man really loves you the same way you do or if he is just after your company now that the wife is in the US. If he loves you the same way then I think the best thing for both of you is to make sure you are all free from your significant others before you go further. if he is ready to divorce his wife to be with you, then let him do that first. Also look at the well being of both kids. Kids get traumatised when their parents are having other partners apart from their biological parents. So please look at this also. Weigh all your options.

I will say that I'm in a sort of similar situation kind of... I would find out where you stand and see what his plans are with his wife. How long has this been going on? I would make sure that this love is for real and I can't tell you what that is though I wish I could. Make sure that love isn't one sided as well- sometimes guys have a habit of saying they love you when they actually love their wives and just want a relationship on the side- make sure he is truthful, which depending on how well you know him you might be able to tell if he is lying. Best thing I can say is that do what is right and if he isn't move on. Maybe remain friends and see if he misses you enough to leave his wife- but don't hold your breath or your heart hostage! With a child he has on the way, that is a really touchy situation. My guess is he is staying with her and if you are OK with that- then go about your business. If you are looking for a future with him- well- I probably don't think that will happen because of the child! Good luck! It is a hard situation but things do have a way of working out.

hey are u really seperated now?

Dear Bishu, Never love anothers husband as you can never be really happy. Problems do crop up often, because sometimes we tend to compare them.