how to read my child's mind?

@aaslin (123)
India
December 15, 2007 6:29am CST
how to know what my 16 year old son thinks?im struggling with him at home...he always hurts me
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3 responses
@Buchi_bulla (8304)
• India
21 Dec 07
It is not solved in one single try. Talk to them as often as you can, keep friendly relationship with them, give them freedom of expressing their inner heart feelings to you and listen carefully to whatever they say and try to understand them in their own angle. May be you can read his mind at least to some extent.
@hotsatya (240)
• India
21 Dec 07
this is a normal problem in teenagers because want to do there work in his style.In this stage children's want ,s good friends they don't likes a boundation.you tried to become a good friend of your son in a few days you can realized that what,s his thinking.you come on his son age level and you may easily read your child mind
@biggerb (2028)
• India
15 Dec 07
Handling these teenagers is very difficult.I went through this traumatic period all by myself.My husband was away on an overseas assignment.We just have to interact with them.keep in touch with his friends so that you know what's happening.When their friend's talk to them or advice them they listen.I always approached my son's friends for help.