Best Friend

@oliverdt (1958)
Philippines
December 15, 2007 9:49am CST
Do you believe best friend is hard to find. In my own experience my best friend is like my twin brother, we share almost everything in our life.
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@fwangaa (3057)
• China
13 Aug 08
yes,my best friend that just help me and provide help to me.not just for money for the no purpose of help.i have this friend in my college school.and i am so happy to have such friendly friend in my life.but i have no his commination for eight years,i want to connect him ,but none of my friend knows the address of him.
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Hi fwangaa, nice to meet you here in mylot. Best friend is our hero they can provide help anytime anywhere. That is sad to hear, I hope soon you will see or contacted your friend again. In my college days until now my best friend is always on my side to help every time I need it the most. Thanks for the response and have a great day my friend.
• India
8 Aug 08
The Emphasis, the degree of importance.. that we lay on the word " BEST" friend decides the time frame of chosing a good friend. In my experience there is none in the world to which we can completely rely on,.... The level of mutual understanding.. may at one point or other, becomes selfish..if thing your friend needs to do will deliver him the fullest satisfaction. Satisfaction, i don't mean money alone, but inclusive of non-materialistic things also. Till this time, i am to find one best friend, but i have a lot of good friends.
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
Hi saivenkaat802003, You have a point there my friend... in your response I found out that you are still searching for one best friend right. You said that you have many friends but till this time you never found one. I guess in my own experience I already found my true best friend my true love my wife. Thanks for the response and I hope you found your one BEST friend soon.
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
15 Dec 07
It is not that easy to earn the 'Best Friend(s)' in your life. We may start a debate under 'Debate' section to figure out which one is tough: - best friend or best earning program! No joke. I've seen my father, who had friends till his last breathe standing by his side. And i know about myself. I see the changes in my friend-list (real life) quite so often. Though I get my classmates by my side till date and that has been my only consolation. It has been tough to get your best friend, who understands your difficulties and who has sometime to listen to you. It is getting more and more difficult. Most of the time a friendship with me ends up when someone wants to take undue advantage of my position or I fail to pay heed to their demands. May be I'm not that good person and the fault is with me and not with those whom I would trust once as my 'Best friend'!
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
16 Dec 07
Yes, sometimes bestfriend can be your worst enemy. but that is not forever, you can still reconcile with him or her.
• India
22 Aug 08
It is very difficult to find a good friend now a days.For making friendship people will first consider money and status.I think no money can buy a good friend.If we have lot of money,people will gather around us to make friendship.I think friend in need is a friend indeed.
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Hi sreejithsreenivas, Yes its true its really hard to find real true friends nowadays. In that is the biggest problem here in the world money for friendship. Sometimes money is more important than friendship that will lead to traitor a poor friend. It happened to me all the time, I got so many friends before that stab me in the back for popularity and fame. Anyway that is long time ago and I don't want to think about it anymore because until now it hurts. Thank you for the comment and have a great day ahead of you my friend sreejithsreenivas.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
Yes I agree. Best friends are really hard to find. What's harder is maintaining the friendship between you. IT's great to have one and you're very lucky
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Hi magojordan, Thank you for agreeing with me in my topic. Yes when it comes to friendship the relationship between is really hard to maintain or to take good care of. you need to have a give and take relationship to make your friendship stronger. Yes if we have an understanding friends or best friend then we are lucky to have them by our side. Thanks for the comments and have a great day.
• United States
27 Aug 08
olivedt, You are right best friends are hard to find in life. If you have just one friend that is truly your friend you are blessed beyond all things in life. Not everyone has a friend. Consider yourself fortunate and remember to respect your friend and not take him for granted. Treasure your friendship. God bless you
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
Hi cyckegmom1400, First of all i want to welcome you here in mylot because I noticed that you are new here you deserved a warm welcome from me. Yes that's right best friend is really hard to find in our life. Yes I feel blessed with my wife on my side always. Yes you to thank you. Have a great day and take care of yourself too.
• Italy
9 Aug 08
This is really hard to find a true friend now a days because world is growing fastly and everyone is busy almost 24 hrs a day. No one have any time for others even for their own families soo how can you find a friend who will be avalible for you. This is really a tough job. What i wann say to all opplz here is dont try to find a best friend, be a best friend for someone else and pplz will come tou you by themselves. I was also trying to find a good friend but i dont have yet any best buddy in my life so i decided to be a best buddy for others.
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@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
Hi rockydam83, Yes hard time find best friend nowadays because of the busy lifestyle that we have right now. It also happened to me not to see my family for a couple of time because we are all busy to our different kind of jobs. Sad to know that you don't have best friend yet. I am available... Anyway I believe that some of our best friend just come and go and disappear for good. Thank you for the response and have a pleasant day.
@aaslin (123)
• India
15 Dec 07
its true best friends are really hard to find...we meet thousands everyday..we also make many friends among them..but finding a best friend is so hard because our best friend should exactly match our character
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
16 Dec 07
Yes you were right!
@chej18 (915)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Hi there, Thats right the real good friend best friend is hard to find.I have this very good friend of mine she is always there w/ me if i need her.Arranging party,cooking,if i am down,upset she is comforting me.I remembered when i had this big problem she is always w/ me pushing me to go out trying to make me feel better about myself and guiding me..she is really nice friend i cant be w/out her.We treated each other like a sister.We watch each other back.. Greetings from Che!
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
Hi che, yes that's right true friend is hard to find specially if you don't have any idea to find one. But i think you don't need to find it but you need to wait for them to come to you. That time you can know each other as friends or true friend. You are lucky that you have a friend like her, you treated each other as sisters and you watch each others back. Have a nice day and take care always.